Never even considered Bi, until Senior years.

Were you Bi all of your life, or is it something that developed because of needs? Until my wife and I hit our senior years, neither of us considered anything other than our love and family. Kid gone , retired, as horny as I eve was and a wife who was done with sex, we discussed it. The only thing that interested her in a sexual way, was being a voyeuristic old lady. She has been facinated by gay sex for years and her interests became a solution for us both.
This option opened up doors to new opportuity, excitement and pleasure both physical and mental.
Were you always bi, or was it something that developed over time?

 

for me, it developed over time. I just began to notice guys dicks , they got me hard, so I began to try different things. Wished I had started sooner

 

I never realized I was into men till 38, I do remember when I was in my teens I liked looking at cocks but never once thought about sex with a guy. So fast forward to my late 30s and explored more and more due to a sexless part of my marriage. Now 50 and think about sex with men almost all the time

 

I was 61 when I had my first experience. I both wish I started sooner and wish I had more time for play with men

 

In my early 30's during a sexless point in my first marriage I accepted a blowjob from a gay man and he offered to service me three times a week. After a few weeks I wanted to see if sucking cock was for me and found rather quickly I enjoyed it very much and was a born natural.

 

Just lately, I'm 76 and married. I found jacking off to hetero porn was getting boring and I wasn't getting very hard. I tried something different...bisexual porn and wow, raging hard-on.

 

Through the years I had a times thought about the times in my teen years where friends and I would JO together but didn't consider going anywhere with the idea. My wife and I had a great sex life together. Throughout the last several years my wife became less and less interested in sex. To the point now of non existence. Being nudists we introduced a couple who we've known for years to the lifestyle. He and I got to spending a lot of time nude together. His wife too had diminished sex drive. We would discuss it and talk about our past pleasurable times. About two years ago curiosity and need kicked in and we started to show interest with each other and have played with things a few times. Short answer....we are both in our 60s

 

People change as they age. Women are most likely to lose interest in sex mid to later in life. Generally men continue on often until death. For a lot of people seeking pleasure from sex comes from many different avenues beyond the martial bed. Usually the route takes a course that is the most convenient or available without destroying the marital arrangement. Let's face it. We still love our chosen partner and want to be with them as a companion even though interests have changed. Men will engage with friends with benefits, fuck buddies, and pay for play as a few directions in which to travel in order to sate strong sexual desires. It becomes an easy choice to be involved with someone who will provide. Departure from the normal husband / wife sexual relations may also include same gender sex. As a person ages they become more at ease with activities that they thought of as taboo in their earlier years. It is more common than known that male friends become intimate friends engaging with each other once the marital sex life ceases. So yes, for some men turning bisexual is something that develops because of needs. Certainly there are men who went both ways from the beginning and others who never crossed that line. But for a lot of men who venture into sex with a male friend it is something that developed over time. As I wrote earlier as we age we become more accepting of things we thought of as taboo in our earlier years.

 

I never considered having sex with a man until I discovered a glory hole at an adult book store. I knew it was a man sucking my cock but didn't care because It felt so good. One time a cock came through the hole and I gave in to curiosity. I loved having a cock in my mouth. I was in my late 30s then and am 75 now and have sucked a lot of cocks and hope to suck a lot more.

 

This is so helpful! Thank you. You answered a lot of questions and add perspective. Appreciate it

 

I was curious and even fantasized about it from time to time when I was younger. But, I was sexually active with girls and then my wife throughout those years. Plus, I wouldn't act on outside sex even with other females while married for concern of bringing an std home. I was in my 50's when we separated and that was when I had the green light to try sex with another male. I found it to be a lot of fun.

 

It is exciting and wonderful to have sex with another guy. i agree

 

I had been curious for a long time, even in my thirties but I never acted on it. Until in my fifties I let a guy suck me. Still for a long time I considered it a one time thing. But the curiosity never left me until I resigned myself to try the giving end. Who knew I was a natural at it. Every guy I have sucked has commented how talented I am and several have said it’s the best bj they have ever had. This isn’t an effort to bolster my self, its more of an indication of how much I enjoy what I’m doing.

 

So true it has been said guys suck dicks better than females I always give a good blow job i think

 

Never sucked a cock until in my late fifties, I began sharing my wife at 58 and she was 53 .... It was one of those times while watching my wife with her lover making love that she asked me to join them so I did and sucked my first cock after that I sucked his cock when ever they made love! The guy then told others I sucked his cock then I began being approached by other men not be able to resist I began sucking cock often....

 

I was never interested in sucking cock until my mid sixties and I am now 82. But I have always loved oral sex. Giving and receiving but liked licking pussy more than receiving being sucked. My wife decided she was no longer interested in sex and stopped all forms of it. I started watching porn on the internet and found myself liking to look more at the big cocks being sucked by the porn actresses and thinking that I could do a better job than that. I finally asked an old friend that I suspected of being big if he was and whether he was or not would he allow me to suck his cock. He laughed, and said "Hell yes, if I can do you. We were alone at his house, so he dropped his pants and shorts, say me down on a short stool and put the head of his, by then, hard cock right up to my mouth and told me to start sucking. I did, loved it, he shot a load in my mouth, I swallowed and loved it.

 

Same here....just hoping a situation like that comes up for me here in North Georgia area....been quite curious the last few years.

 

Again same....i've been fortunate to have some Amazing sex with many many woman over the years....nothing like making a woman want to 'pull the headboard off' the wall in Glee giving oral. Fast forward, i had a dream one night a few yrs ago of giving a guy i knew a ride home from the Sports Bar, when the female College Grad student i was meeting didn't show up.....He asked if he could give me a BJ, and i hesitantly said 'sure'...It felt so real. When i Nutted, i could literally feel it hit the back of his throat. *Im Def looking to have it happen, and looking to try it....but unsure of how to make it happen, since i'm 'New' to this. What Forums, message sites, what post are legit? Anybody have any luck switching their preference to 'Male' on Bumble? No way i could download Grindr on my phone as family might see it....Hope everyone is having a Great week!! Go USA!!

 

I've been to a few glory holes and I've been sucked there by both men and women. I've brought a few curious girls there as well. I'm mildly interested is sucking a cock and I'd be more comfortable with one in a glory hole. Not at all attracted to men though so if it was just a cock, that would be great. I still need that womanly look and feel for attraction.

 

I did not become curious until 70, then sucked my first cock at 71, loved it now I suck any chance I can, still like pussy.