I dont know why...I assume its because Im ugly.Im started to feel utterly alone and yeah,whatever.Im 15 yearold girl and never been asked out...Im just curious to why that is,people say that Im nice and have a great personality.They say that they find it hard to believe that I've never been asked out.I have no idea if they're just saying that just to be nice.I would ask a guy out,but Im not too sure how to come around of it aswell as I am afraid of rejection. Here are a few pictures of me: Any advice? I just feel so ignored...Thanks.
you aren't ugly my girlfriend wasn't asked out until she was 16, she's not ugly either and I was never asked out, and I'm only a bit ugly =P I didn't date until 17, and I did ask a few girls before that lots've teens find themselves in the same position as you, you aren't abnormal in any way
No, you're not ugly at all, maybe guys haven't asked you out because they are intimidated by you. Guys are self conscious and afraid of rejection too. I'm 19 and I've never had the courage to ask a girl out. And let's not forget that you're only 15, you have plenty of time for boys. And boys aren't that great anyway (I would know, I happen to be one.) My advice is to just have fun and be yourself (I know it's a cliche, but it's good advice.) In the years to come I'm sure you'll have more boys chasing you than you can shake two sticks at. P.S. You have very pretty eyes.
umm will you go out with me? lol. Maybe we can just married guys are idiots, you deserve someone great.
meh, i was 16 before i had my first date and i asked him out. i think i was 18 before a guy asked me out, so dun worry babycakes. be happy with who youi are, and if you really want to go on a date just ask the guy youre interested in out
i didnt get asked out till i was 17 or something. it's not abnormal and you are definately not ugly. most 15yr old boys are hopeless and still pretty immature (there are exceptions of course) you have your whole life to endure the highs and lows of relationships. i wouldn't worry about it now!
Woah. You kinda look like me. o.o Strange. Anyways, I wasn't asked out till I was 15 and honestly.... what's the rush? Wait for the right guy to come to you. It's worth it! =]
You are definitely not ugly! As for not being asked out, pretty much everyone's saying the same thing, so listen to their advice!
Similar sort of scenario, APPARENTLY im a good enough looker, but have the same sorta problem. I can tell you right now you're definitely not ugly, it might be a vibe you're giving out or something, apparently, sometimes I look unapproachable/intimidating, which I can't help, but you don't have that problem. SO! you're either looking really hard for a boyfriend, therefore giving any potential guys around you this really desperate feeling (which is very unattractive) or it could be something else. It has nothing to do with your looks, so, with that aside, look at some other issues you might think it could be. See how you go, ciao!
I was in college before I went on a date... it turned out most of the guys in my high school were intimidated of me (of course, I learn this years later!). I was 2nd in the class, a wrestler, I boxed guys, etc. They were just scared little boys. Peace and love
You seem to be getting answers from one perspective. Here is another for you to ponder. I had lost my virginity by the time I was your age, and I had just ended my first serious relationship. It lasted just over a year. By the time I was sixteen I was head and feet into my second serious relationship. Perhaps another course of action is required?
I don't think kids that age (under 17) should be having sex. I don't think they are mature enough for it. Kids that age should be doing other things. And I don't care what anyone says, losing your virginity before age 15 is NOT cool, and nothing to brag about... And how serious of a relationship could a 14 year old really have?
I don't think its because your ugly, but maybe because you yourself feel that way, you carry yourself in a less confident way, and you know what they say - confidence is the sexiest attribute any woman can carry.
Not just that, it's the fact they've no sex education and get pregnant. Kids having Kids is NOT cool either, but you can't do anything. They're gonna be cool and rebelious, have sex and fuck themselves up regardless. But hey, that's what being a kids all about...and I guess that's how people finally grow up.
confidence isnt the sexiest attribute a woman can have....i find myself attracted to many girls who are shy, or something similar. Everyone has their own thing they find attractive or sexy about the opposite sex. And if a girl thinks shes the bomb when she actually is annoying...that is NOT sexy. at all. Ewa is movie star gorgeous. If you really want to go out with someone Ewa, then go ask them out! Guys are expected to do all the work and girls just focus on their image so much because they want guys to come up to them. When they really dont need to focus on their image AT ALL and should be focusing on what they could do to make guys attracted to them with their personality. being open minded, understanding, nice, outgoing, smart, and unique are the things i think make girls sexy. You should try and find something that no other girl can offer.....a trait of your personality that makes you the coolest motherfucker on this side of the mississippi. just my $.02
Hey I am in the same boat as you InsaneEwa. Except the only difference is that I am 17 years old!!! I have never been asked out and sometimes I feel like I am going to die a virgin and alone. I am about to graduate and go off to college and I haven't had that experience. My friends have told me that they are surprised I haven't had a bf too so I assume its just a vibe I am giving off. When I am around guys I am attracted to, I can be shy and unconfident looking. I dont know why I do it but that might be what turns them off. Anyways, I still enjoy being around my friends and just chilling, and that usually keeps my mind off of the fact that I have never dated, until they start talking about that subject. I too need suggestions, for at least TALKING to guys I like.
Guys love talking about sports, music and they love hearing complements (dont we all). Those are all good things to talk about with guys Genie. Atleast for starters....and chances are that they are attracted to you, guys are attracted to lots of woman, of all sorts. If you give off the vibe that you want him..i.e some sort of physical contact, and lots of sexy smiles and poses, etc. then maybe he has the courage to initiate some sort of sexual relationship. If not, then maybe you should try to ask him
