Hello, let me start by introducing myself. Male ofcoarse, and I picked the name Arrowhead Water, becuase its the first thing that i saw sitting on my desk when i was trying to think up of a name. So, iv been dating this girl for about 8 months. I'm actually ashamed of this, but hey...you need to get help sometime right? My problem is, that through all the months, iv never been able to get her to an orgasm. Be it by hand, or tongue, iv never been able to do it. Its just literally impossible. Now just let me explain myself. The story behind this, is that she happens to be one of those girls that discovered her clit at a young age. Were talking young...maybe 6 years old or so. Now becuase of that, it just seems that shes been doing it for so long, that it would be impossible for me to actually nail exaclty how she does it, and get her to one. Also, im her first aswell, so shes had no experiance before this relationship, and nor do i. It's funny becuase iv tried so many times...sometimes for 40 minutes straight. I hope this really doesn't get out of hand, but im really asking for just some structural advice on getting her to an orgasm by hand, or mouth. She definitly does not like direct contact, so she prefers areas around. I know certain moods are required, and im really willing to do anything at this point to get her to one, even if it means lining up a whole room with scented candles and etc . Some do's and dont's could be good, and a girls point of view aswell. Thanks in advance.