Ok I need some kind of advice I know this girl from the internet, we met when we were aprox 13-14 can't remember where exactly but we were interested on a band or something anyway we are now 23ish, it's been 10 years of chatting and stuff like 5 years ago she said she had a crush on me, I said I liked boys and completely ignored whatever feeling I had and decided to let it go, still we kept on chatting and all then we kind of stopped to chat as often but kept in contact once in a while... the attempts we had of meeting each other were never successful for one reason or the other at the beginning of the year we started chatting again more often, we started texting and we even talk over the phone, we started flirting and before I knew it I was deep in this weird relationship based on calls, facebook, text and chat, she had a girlfriend... and we were acting girlfriend like so I told her straight up I wasn't interested on being the other girl... and she kept on saying she had strong feelings for me since forever and stuff, I offered my friendship nothing else anyway after some kind of fight they broke up and she finally told me she was in love with me and she wanted to be with me, and it may sound crazy but I'm falling for her as well... so we are now a couple we have this intense chats already either for good or for bad she is coming to visit for a few days, she asked me to stay with her at her hotel, I said yes I'm terrified, I have all this feelings I never had before and I have no clue if that's even possible for only indirect contact, but I feel them, the thing is I'm a virgin and she is not and to be completely honest I don't think we are just sleeping the nights she'll be here she did say we didn't have to do anything, that she wouldn't try anything unless I asked for it which is fine by me do you think this is waaaay to soon to start thinking about making love? I know this girl from 10 years, I trust her and I love her and we connected in so many ways, still I never met her in person I don't know if I should shave or just trim a little or if I should do some extra special grooming I don't want to hurt her, she is been in my life for so long any advice? sorry for the super long post
to be honest I like it trimmed. Can you not find out what she likes by asking her in a different way?
you mean like trimmed just a little? I could ask her, I'm just waaay to shy when it comes to this so I just wanted to know opinions...
If she loves you, I can guarantee that she isn't that concerned about what it looks like between your legs. Do whatever you would normally do - bathe and clean up, groom if you do usually or don't; I doubt it will matter. As for whether it even gets that far, you should set the pace since you're the one who's unsure of things. If you know her and are attracted and intimately emotionally involved with her, then after so many years of having an established connection it might not be so far-fetched if you became physically intimate, but ONLY IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE. It can be scary for a first-timer especially with a "veteran," but really it's a great situation to be in, because she has the experience to not only guide you but to potentially blow your mind. Reciprocity isn't something you should be worried about at this point; she'll understand that you lack experience and she'll help you get up to speed, probably in very enjoyable lessons. ;P But again I would emphasize that you shouldn't take any step that doesn't feel natural and comfortable to you.
