Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months.. everything has been okay.. but before we started going out he was trying to get with my sister Lacie. Lacie was his friend Rubens girlfriend and they had problems in there relationship. Anyways, after it did not work out my sister he started talking to me, a month later we were going out. So just last week I ask if I could have his email password(he gave it to me) Today, I'm reading his email and i come across this--------> NO, I'm not going to get Lacey pregnant. At this point, all we've done is talked. No physical contact at all yet, except for a brief hug. I'm really trying not to break them up, but I just can't help myself from getting close to her, and even though I'm not actively pursuing her, I'm still hurting their relationship. Ruben hasn't been communicating very well with her, or visiting her very often .. Lacey is a great, hard working, considerate girl, but her family consists of dirt poor trailer trash with drug, alcohol, and prison problems. Its a new experience for me dealing with those kind of people, and I don't know how well I'm going to handle it. ---------------- OKay, now i know lacie is in the past .. but it still hurts.. and the things he said about my family included me! I feel so hurt.. and I can't believe he would say that about my family.. just because he is supper rich does not mean im poor(dirt poor trailer trash) I DON'T EVEN LIVE IN A TRAILER! and then to say, with drug, alcohol, and prison problems. Okay, my dad has those problems which is why he does not live with us!! I don't really know what i should do? I feel like just breaking up with him because im so hurt.. but this was in his email, which means its personal and its also in the past. any advice would greatly help .. thanks Yikkes i posted under my moms ID.. LOL!!! Anyways, i'm superflychick!!!! he he
superflychick... I dont know. Why dont you talk to him and ask him about your doubts? I dont think people here can do much about your problem...I hope everything works out for you. good luck
i suggest talking to him too, if your unhappy you should try and sort things out...but you have to admire how open he is, he does care about you i'm sure
