well hes 12. but honestly. its not like it was some sexual thing. i dont think its wrong. your just helping him. i wouldn't take it any farther. but what you did was fine. if he asks again, tell him no. but doing it once is not a bad thing.
For me i think its perfectly fine, i mean, he's gonna learn about the whole thing and he's gonna start 'real' masturbating pretty soon, so i don't see the problem with a 1-2 year head start... I mean, im 14, and whenever i go to my friend's house for a sleepover, we always wait for his parents to go to sleep, watch some porn and start masturbating. Its really no big deal, but we're covered in blankets so i don't think its like what your doing.
It's fine you told him, but don't even think about masturbating together. That could get you into all sorts of trouble.
Okay, I thought about it a lot the past few days and I think you guys are right. Thank you. And is there anything that I should really tell him?
Thank you for thinking things through. My mother works as a Juvenile Detention Officer, and has had many kids your age in the jail being caught masturbating with younger kids. Some were doing it for the wrong reasons, some were doing it like you were. It's sad to see kids your age going to jail for something like that and getting a record. I find nothing wrong with masturbating with friends. BUT, don't do it with underage kids, even if you are underage.
