if the feeling is mutual then you should be a-ok. but you've gotta realize that he hasn't gone through what you have, and may not know exactly what he wants. Just feel it out... I know it's not much help. He's probably already getting your anxious/nervous vibes and is wondering what the matter is. The words you say aren't nearly as important as the feeling behind them. Trust me, your "played out conversation" won't help you when the time comes. I would say let him know your feelings and reasoning (but don't come off too strong, especially about the pasts relationships) and give him TIME!! Hope everything goes wonderfully love, al the pal
Thanks man, yea he doesnt really know about my past relationship, and i wouldnt want to come on to strong...its weird b/c i am friends with mostly alll guys, i am infact like one of the guys, and can usually handle these situations,n im great at giving other people advice, n solving my own stuff, but i dunno, just nervous, but tonight is the night i bring it up...so i'll let u know how it goes...Thanks again hun
just keep things the same, eventually something will happen. this one gal and i, weve been friends for over two years, and just now after all this time, weve been atracted to each other, and we dated other people, but now were pretty close with each other...no longer just friends we are.