need help with chicks, fast.

god damn.

ok two girls.

1: girlfriend of 3 or 4 days.
i liked her for a year or two. were finally going out, but yeah. anyways, shes in my league, so ok, good deal.

2: hot chick, who i know enough to know shes not evil, or going to try to fuck up my life or anything. promised to make out with me one of these days, and that day is this saturday. fuck.

anyways, hot chick is way out of my leauge, and the chances of me getting anyone like this ever again are slim to none. i am merely 14, so relationships arent THAT important to me. making out is.

so me and chick #2 were talking today, and as seing how she promised to make out with me, she walked up and whispered all hot chick like "i dont lie". got into a short conversation about that, cleared some stuff up, and great, she wont lie. up untill stupid effeminate dude says something about my girlfriend, who of which i like, but im not madly in love with, like chick #2.

chick #2 in a sad voice is like "damnit, im lying" and not in some retarded horny person sort of way, but some how very intellegent. and sharp. like slicing into my soul sharp. but yeah, so i have no idea what im supposed to do here, because i like both of them, but, well lets lay it out like this:


scenario 1: i break up with girlfriend, free to make out with hot chick.

worst thing that could happen: hot chick gets pissed about me not having morals and whatnot, ex girlfriend hates me.

scenario 2: stay with girlfriend, dont make out with hot chick, do with girlfriend. feel like weeny. damnit

worst thing: girlfriend might end up not liking me, (because the relationship is so young) and she dumps me 2 days after i had a chance to make out with the hot chick.





shhhhhhhitttt.... help?

 

*laughs* Enjoy, dude. There's going to be times in your life when you'll wish you had this kind of problem.

whichever way it goes you're bound to learn somethin' so take notes.

The problem you discribed is kind of a universal delema for us guys: "Do I go for excitement or intamacy? Or do I try to have it both ways?" The only thing I can tell you is nothing is what you think it is, you don't know what an apple tastes like till you take a bite.

 

hahaha....i wish i was in this position at 14.


I say to stay with your girlfriend but make out with the hot chick. You're only 14, might as well have as much fun as possible.

Although, sex is much more fun than making out. Try and get em both in bed, and use condoms.


haha....such great advice.

 

USE CONDOMS!!!!!!!!
Hey man, nothing's wrong with sex, but hell HAVE SAFE SEX!

WRAP YOUR MEAT!
G'luck.

 

I recommend drugging both, raping them, and going to a juvenile correction facility.

 

I like Rubin's advice. Have fun!

 

haha, as a 14 year old girl i have to say that it all depends on how hot you are and how hot hot chick is. A certain level of hotness and i would understand ( when i say understand i don't mean forgive, just not hate forever), but still break up with you and sling your name around as the worst kisser in the whole school. hot chick probably doesn't actually care about yer morals so screw that. ask your girlfriend what kind of relationship you have, if she would care, if she wanted to join you, whatever. You never know what kind of answer you get...

 

Hey snelio, wanna shoot each other with tranqulizer darts and fuck like STONED TEST BUNNIES?

 

ohh stay wiv chic no 1, she seems sweet, many hot chicks will come and go, best friends stay around longerif you treat them nice, and no1 cld end up bein ur best friend. You have many years u get to have everyone atone point or another, dnt try and have it all now
And BraveSirRubin, ur distgusting, its not even funny to joke about stuff like that, ur fowl and not commerical.

 

You should learn to type.

 

*yawn* nice reply.not too bothered about my typing, just happy that im a decent person

 

Dude, you're 14. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!? BANG THE HOT CHICK! If your girlfriend finds out. who the hell cares? You're 14, now the time is now mack on all the chicks you can. Trust me. If you wan't to get addicted to one thing in life, its pussy.

 

ppl here give horrible advice.
stay with your gf and start learning about morality at a young age. Or break up with your gf but dont cheat on her.

 

Or learn how to have fun by not breaking up with her and getting laid by the other chick



Live like a rockstar!

 

or.... castrate yerself.

 

Living like a rockstar would be much funner

 

haha, you said "funner"

 

long run man, it won't matter what you do
i wouldnt' stress

 

would you rather make out with "hot chick" once, or your girlfriend eighty-seven times?

staying with your girlfriend and still making out with hot chick is probably a bad idea. if your high school is anything like mine was, gossip spreads like mad, and your girlfriend is gonna find out sooner than later. most likely, she'll be pissed and there will be lots of drama. there might even be tears. and that's just messy and annoying.

if you've liked your girlfriend for a year or two, chances are you'll be happier with her in the long run. i know, you said you don't really care about a relationship. just don't fuck things up yet. if the situation was reversed, and you found out she was hooking up with some hot 17-year old, how would you feel?

if you've liked her for a while, i assume you've been friends, right? if you decide to make out with hot chick, at least ditch your girl first. as her friend, you owe her at least some honesty. "bros before hoe's," right? even though she's a chick, she's still a friend, so be decent. intentionally hurting her isn't very friendly.

this might work better: tell your girlfriend that hot chick flat out propositioned you, and that you turned her down 'cause you're with your girl, and you really dig her. just obviously, use her name and don't call her "hot chick" or your girl will misinterperate that as meaning that she is ugly compaired to hot chick. sure, that sounds silly, but that's how a lot of girls are. anyway, once your girl finds out that you dig her more than hot chick, she'll probably feel a lot happier and more secure around you (read: she'll trust you enough to "get closer").

 

hot chick only said she wanted to make out, right? you didn't say anything about getting laid.

hot chick might end up making out with you, but at 14, i seriously doubt she'll just flat out fuck you, no strings attached.

you're more likely to get laid by your girl sooner than hot chick.