Okay, here’s my situation: I’m 16 years old. I live in the suburbs. Recently I’ve been caught smoking weed over 7 times this year and my mom (completely anti-weed) has just about had it with me. Just when I got my car back and things were back to normal, I get caught with beer in my car and get suspended from school for 5 days. She’s never grounded me before but she’s serious this time. I’m grounded for 2 fucking weekends and can’t really use my car unless it’s for work or to go to school. This weekend, Saturday to be exact, my boy is having a HUGE party. His mom bought 4 kegs, 10 handles and everyone else is bringing the rest. I can’t miss this party. This might be the only chance I have of hooking up with this girl too. This is where it gets complicated. My mom is gonna be at a different party that night too and wants me to watch my brother. She wants me to pick her up because she’s gonna be drunk. I’m not sure what time she’s gonna want me to pick her up but I’m guessing she’s gonna ask me around 11-12. Anyways, my boys party is gonna be going on all night so I’m not too worried about what time I get there, but on the other hand the girl I wanna get with is gonna leave around 12. Okay so here are my options w/ my mom and her party. 1. Drive her and pick her up. She would be somewhat drunk when I pick her up so maybe she would go to bed soon when I took her home. But sometimes when she’s drunk and comes home she can’t sleep so that would really effect the time I get to the party. It all depends on when she passes out. Then I sneak out of the house, and take off. 2. Refuse to drive her, she would get pissed and would have to go to the party and not drink or her friend would take her back BUT I cant pull that off unless I fake sick or give her a reason that I cant take her back. The benefits would be her coming home early, allowing me an earlier time to get to the party and get with that girl. Here are my transportation options. Both plans can involve either me sneaking out with my car or taking a taxi. If I take my car I’m safe and have a ride home but if she notices the car is gone I am completely fucked because I’m not suppose to even be driving it and she will automatically know I snuck out. OR Take a taxi to the party but this would be hard as shit because you can’t trust these taxi drivers. Last time the guy told me 20 mins., and it came 2 1/2 hours later. But if my mom goes outside for some reason my car will be there so she will think I’m in bed. If she checks my room and I’m not there she will assume I’m sleeping in the basement or something if my cars there. MY alibi if I get caught and my cars gone is that my boy’s car died and he was stuck on the middle of the highway and needed my help. I have no idea what to tell her if my cars there and I’m gone. Keep in mind when she says goodnight I will NEVER be disturbed unless she smells weed lol or there’s an emergency. She is a very very heavy sleeper. I know I COMPLETELY over analyzed this situation but being suspended gave me a lot of time to think this out. Also, my mom told me she’s tired of me fucking up and the next time I screw up the car is gone till I am 18 and I’m sure ill be grounded for a month or two. Anyways, thank you to anyone who read this and even more thanks to anyone who replied. I will let you all know how it goes.
Dude, your only 16. Slow down a little. The suburb project has obviously done a toll on your mind. It's even effecting me. Shit dude, i can't believe these kids, thinking living in the fast lane is the way to go. Heres the plan, let your mom party, take care of your responsibilities. Control yourself, don't let your peers influence your way of thinking. That girl you want to meet is going to change dramatically in 3 years, no one is ever the same after high school. So chill and take time out to think things through.
You should probably change you're age there EMAT . But ya, just slow it down a bit, do you really need to be at the party to hook up with her? It doesn't sound like the risks of going outweigh the rewards if you get caught. Why don't you just chill with the girl some other time? And there are always other parties.
Just go man walk out the front door go party, chill wit cha boys, mac on some girls, just do your thing than go home the next day and dont say shit.
