I've always dated guys, always thought i was straight. But lately i've been realizing how much i've always preferred to look at women's bodies, even since i was like 12. For the past year or so ive only watched lesbian porn, just because it's what i prefer. Last night i had a dream about a romance with a girl, something i've never had before. I've never experimented with girls because i would never want to do that with my friends and am not really in contact with any girls that would be down to try stuff. I am also attracted to guys, so i'm definitely not just lesbian. But am i bisexual? How can i tell if i truly like women also?
Don't stress the labels and just explore and realize that sexual orientation can be fluid. I used to consider myself bi, then pan, but now I'm basically a lesbian with a boyfriend.
I feel the same way. I know I like guys but i am always checking out girls when the past me by and I've masturbated to lesbian pornography already...when I watch porn I sometimes thing of what it would be like to be the person fucking the chick instead of what it would be like to be fucked by the dude. It's confusing and I wish I knew what to do.
You sound bicurious to me, liking women isn't only about admiring another woman's body, or preferring lesbian porn. Most "lesbian porn" is made for straight guys, and there are quite a lot of straight women who like "lesbian porn", which doesn't really make sense to me. I would think it's because it's not as "aggressive" compared to straight porn (guys would be holding the woman by the neck, shoving her, pushing her head to the floor etc), and therefor more pleasing to watch. I'd consider you to be bisexual if you desired women sexually AND emotionally. Do you get nervous around certain girls? Are there girls that make your heart race or make you think about them from time to time?
WTF, you are NOT "basically a lesbian" if you have a boyfriend, I friggin hate it when women say shit like that.
