Ok so been married for 3 1/2 months me and wife are both virgins we wanted to wait until marriage so we got married and we still haven’t had sex she either scarred,or just not interested she has talked to people about it but she doesn’t want me to do anything to her can’t touch her butt,tits anything so we have been arguing and being mad at Each other I’m getting aggravated because every morning I wake up honey she doesn’t care always tells me she not in the mood she wants to know what’s wrong with me should I tell her that my problem is that I’m horny and u (she) doesn’t care plz help
i don't think i've seen that. i've seen his threads about being in a sham marriage for 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months, and 3 months, but not one about 3 1/2 months.
Here we go, I gathered them all in one place. Somebody help this guy get laid (if I knew how I wouldn't be on this damn computer.) Ready for sex Virgin help No sex Marriage counseling Sexual frustration? Need. Advice
dude, as someone that this happened to - things will not improve. so your options are (since she refuses to talk about it to anyone, or go to counselling, and shoots you down about it) 1 - wait and see if it gets better (it won't) 2 - relegate yourself to a sexless marriage 3 - cheat (stupid af) 4 - try to seduce her, make her comfortable, cater to her, and get her talking about what she wants and needs (doesn't seem like it's gonna work, because this should have been the FIRST thing you tried. if it didn't work, then.. 'she's just into you, bro') 5 - annulment (and find someone who gives two shits about your needs, and is at least willing to discuss things with you and look for solutions.) from the sound of it, she agreed to marry you so she'd have someone to take care of her. as one of my friends put it (in her particular coarse way) 'A sugar daddy's great.. til Daddy wants some sugar.'
not that I actually expect you to take my advice, you've posted thread after thread about this, and have been given all the advice everywhere. and any counsellor's going to give you the same advice. change yourself, live with it, or leave the situation.
Then why did you get married? can you speak? do you know each others names? Did you discuss anything about marriage during dating? Never heard of this.
