Need advice! Straight-guy asked to experiment with me!

Okay, so maybe he's not fully straight then... but he's been with 4 girls and 0 guys. Here's the story...

Last night straight boy told me a 'huge secret' about fantasizing about getting dildo-fucked by a girl. We talked it over a bit and I got some more details out of him and then he randomly asks if I want to give him head in the bathroom...!!!!! well OF COURSE I had to play it off as a joke and act cool about it (i hate myself)

I couldn't imagine he was serious. But after he left he texted me saying that he was gonna ask me if I wanted to give him a bj or vica versa and then fuck. He is a REALLY blunt person and I made sure he wasn't lying and I'm pretty sure he might ask me again in the future.

Well... he is hot as shit. We're talking six-pack, frat-boy, swimmer hot. I'm pretty sure he is gonna ask to hookup some night soon. Well, I don't have much experience with sex but this is one of my biggest fantasies...

Does anyone have any advice to how I should approach this? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any tips for seducing that mostly-straight guy??

 

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Don't we wish!

It sounds like it's not a question of you seducing him, but him seducing you.

I'm always a bit leery about hooking up with "straight" guys. Many of them are willing to get a BJ, but far fewer are willing to do anything to help you get your rocks off. This guy doesn't seem so straight.

 

Since he is asking you, why do not you leave it to him to start the play, and show you the ropes? You can admit that you have not yet managed to amass any significant experience in your sex department, and that you would be very grateful for a good BJ.

Once he shows you the ropes, you are free to reciprocate, if you want to, rite?

And take that "mostly" in the "mostly-straight guy" with a huge lump of salt...

KD

 

I would stroke his . . um . . ego, yeah his ego and tell him you have little or no experience and wouldn't mind learning from/with him ;-)

 

I'd Approach The Situation Next Time, With An "Open Mind" And An

"Open Mouth"....

Don't Let Him Escape The Second Time ....

O.K. I'll Leave Now...:leaving:



Cheers Glen.

 

I once had a straight roommate. After a shower, he liked to walk around the apartment naked. But nothing ever happened. I often wondered if he was trying to tell me something.

--QP

 

You'll never know.

Some guys are just like that, and surprisingly do not see any direct link between being naked around other people and sexuality.

The others are trying to pass a subtle (or not so subtle) a message...

Your guess as good as anyone's...

KD

 

Hey Abstaction,

I would kick this guy to the curb. Classic Confused closet case looking for someone to help him along....If it does go anywhere, just don't fall in love with him. If you are wanting a relationship or a love interest or even have the slightest bit of feelings for this guy, then bail.

Keep your dignity and save yourself a lot of heartache by looking for guys who know what they want and don't play games. Like a good friend told me once I did not listen , she said said to me 'don't let them do to you what they have done to me' I didn't get it 20 years ago but now it is crystal clear.

Be Safe-
pillhead2

 

I agree completely with pillhead2. In fact, thanks pillhead2. Your advice kinda helped me put things into perspective as well. I've satisfied many a straight guy's curiosities only to be truly SCREWED OVER!

I'm afraid it might happen again because this really hot guy asked me if I want to go out with him after he breaks up with his current girlfriend. Apparently he's never had a boyfriend. I'm afraid that he might decide after me that he doesn't like guys. That would be some heartache because he is already a great friend of mine.

 

Kewldewd is right that nudity is often completely unrelated to sexuality or sexual feelings for someone of the same sex. I think best leave alone.

 

Well, don't know what kind of advice I can give. I woulda gave him the BJ right then, especially if he was a hot athletic type. It's only sex, enjoy it. It's not like he asked to deep-tongue kiss a guy (that's some serious shit).

He may be str8, bi curious. He may be closet gay. He may be undecided and confused. All of that is irrelevant. A BJ is just a sexual experience - no big deal for the giving or receiving. Something to add to a lifetime of sexual experience and if it is a first, perhaps a memorable one.

My advice is moot. I woulda been on that cock first opportunity.

 

I'm with Shale- I definitely woulda been right there, ready and willing...but also, a BJ is a BJ, it's not some serious commitment or romantic encounter (in fact, I remember giving some so far from romantic that I'd like to forget them)...

but I would be careful about going much further; he might just be looking to experiment for one, and even if he is gay, it doesn't necessarily sound as though he's ready to come out of the closet (or in this case, the bathroom )