i am a female who has always known myself to be interested in women. however, i have dated and had sex with many men before i came out as bisexual. recently, i started dating another woman (i just came out as bisexual about six months ago). i am very confused about my sexual orientation because i love hanging out with men but i am not into them sexually. with women, i go crazy, but i do not find i have the same emotional connection with them as i do with men, at least at this point. i do not know if i could ever be as turned on by guys as i am by girls but i do not want to live my life married to a woman i cannot connect to as much as i could with a male. am i really just gay? do i just need to give it some time? what is happening? any input or advice would be wonderful, thanks!
I really don't like being in a romantic relationship with someone of the same sex, because it's just flat out weird to me... but that's probably mostly due to a lot of barriers I throw up and things that I just flat out won't allow myself to think or feel. I think this also happens when someone identifies themselves as 'gay' or 'straight', they start throwing up barriers and not allowing themselves to feel certain things, based on that sense of who they are. I wouldn't recommend forcing yourself to do anything, but you could try to just relax about everything and let whatever happens happen... that tends to work in 99% of cases.
Yeah, I don't see a reason to choose a side. Just flow with it, find somebody who makes you happy, that you'd like to be with for a while, whether that be a man or a woman.
i think that choice is the choice of the person themselves...a lot of people seem to care what other people think but if your truly happy with that person weather your a girl with a girl or a girl with guy or even guy with guy that that's who you are meant to be with. and bi sexual doesn't mean you have sex with one and date only the other one, people get that so wrong and its gay. being bi means you can fall in love with either a guy or a girl.
