My young hottie boyfriend has trouble keepin it up!

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by niteowlchik, May 18, 2004.

  1. niteowlchik

    niteowlchik Guest

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    OK I love my boyfriend tremendously and we have been together for a few months now. We had sex even before we got together and have it at LEAST once a day. I would say we are both attractive, from his point of view i am pretty sexy. Yet we have sex and its hard for me to have an orgasm because I feel that when I switch positions or even if I stop for one second he might go limp, and I am always concerned that he might lose it. This has happened alot lately where he is really hard then for some unknown reason he just loses it (his erection i mean). Then I proceed to go down on him and even lick his balls (sorry to be graphic) and he really likes that but it takes him forever to get hard. :( Usually, but not always, after a while he gets an erection again but it takes quite some time. I feel really bad and its not the fact that he doesnt satisfy me, its that I feel bad for him cuz he must be embarrassed. But then I think "whats the matter, is it me??". He seems to young to have a problem. Anyone gone through the same thing or have any advice??
     
  2. socialmachine

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    it happend to me alot the first time to, i think he just might be nervous about performance and what not
     
  3. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    its not you...like the above he's probably really nervous...
     
  4. kentuckyfunk

    kentuckyfunk Member

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    Well, On That Note, It Is Safe To Say That I Am Not Nervous Right Now........
     
  5. Nick

    Nick Member

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    Is he drinking any alcohol before sex? I've noticed that its hard for me to get it up if I have alcohol....even just one beer. Being nervous does it too me too. Otherwise I can get it up quick. And I cum just as quick....LOL....someone help me with that!

    Nick
     
  6. drewbee

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    It wouldn't be relating to him cumming inside of you would it?
    Because That would be bad... unless you want a child.
     
  7. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    Try to relax more and not be worried and just go with the flow, maybe you will be able to achieve an orgasm...
    Why dont you guys 69 for a while and get really into it and then have sex. Maybe that would get you both very excited to where there are no problems..
     
  8. alpacas_r_us

    alpacas_r_us Member

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    Sounds like he has a problem. Seriously.
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  9. Mintaoism

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    hmmm well...that is very odd...why don't you make interesting noises as you turn over...
     
  10. Spinner

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    I know how your boyfriend feels.
     
  11. HippieFlowerGirl67

    HippieFlowerGirl67 Banned

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    Can guys control the result of getting an erection? Sometimes that happens with my guy too....
     
  12. rainwater314

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    well there a few tricks you can use....for one, buy a penis pump. It will enlarge him (bigger than he already is). Second, use a cock ring or even a semi-tight hair scrunchie....it should be snug but not incredibly uncomfortable. The pressure from the scrunchie will keep him errect until ejaculation, and will make the time before ejaculation longer.
     

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