Hi guys I am new here. I have been married to my wife for 3 years and we are very happy together. Just this year I had a fetish of seeing her getting done by other man . To open her up I started to ask her to dress reviling to clubs where she got a lot of attention then talked to her about it then slowly move forward, So far I have brought her to a couple massage by men and that was her first time that another man touched her. When I invite my friends over I get her to put on something reviling. She is more open now as she allows to be touched. How can I get her to do a gangbang ?
Maybe she does not want to do anything because she loves you. In that case this is going be tough. Does not sound like she is on the same page as you. This whole thing is foreign to me.
It sounds like maybe you are more interested in it that she is, but if you want to know for sure ...just ask her if she'd be interested. If she isn't comfortable at all with the idea, but would only do it to please you, I don't think it'd be a good idea to move forward. All things sexual in a relationship should be mutually agreed upon, in my opinion. I never judge anyone's fetish, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone and it's between consenting adults, but if a fetish requires others outside of the relationship to join in, that might not be comfortable for some people.
That I will never want “ to force her” it’s all up to her as Long she enjoys it . I have been introduced her slowly. Even when I ask her to dress reviling she does it on her own . Last she used a fully netted dress and I my self was socked
If you want a real reply, setting up a gang bang is very difficult. Not many guys want to be hard and naked around other guys and be watched having sex. It took me a year to set up a gang bang for an ex girlfriend and even then, the guys did not want to do her all at once. They went into her room one after the other. Also be very careful about what you wish for. Once your wife has sex with someone else their is no undoing it. I am sure it is exciting to you but maybe not so much for your wife who may go along with it to please you. My wife did it once and 45 years later she still regrets it and brings it up. Luckily I left the decision to her and not me so she cannot blame me. Yet she does because she said she did it because she knew that I would like it. I liked it with a girlfriend and not my wife.
Hi thanks, setting up a gangbang would be easy just need her to tell me . Maybe after a few more meet up with my friends she would agree. She is only open to them when they come over as when we go over their wife’s are around.
Friday night I got my friends to come over and just before that I got my wife a bit drunk got her to change into a mini dress without bra and in her smallest thongs just before they came . They were all hard when they saw her Omg
Am I the only one who is uncomfortable around the idea of conditioning / de-sensitizing the wife to become a sex object? Without her knowing what the long term target is? The OP keeps saying that he gets her to dress revealing and then to get massaged. But not about telling her what the ultimate destination is. The term "grooming" isn't correct in this case, but it does come to mind. I am glad to see that the OP went with the old classic "get her drunk and have your way with her". It worries me when partners "convince" partners while keeping the ultimate agenda hidden. Kinda goes against the whole "partners" thing and more into the "boss/servant" thing.
You need to be really, really careful going down this route. If your wife ends up fucking one or more of your friends while she's drunk, when it's not something she'd be willing to do sober, it could do irreversible harm to your marriage. The idea of a gang bang is fun, to be sure, but you have to weigh it against the stability of your relationship.
Hi don’t worry about that she knows what I want as she is willing to dress that way but shy all consent taken but no sex to be carried out as she is not comfortable with that .
We have agreed that sex will only be done when she is sober and willing. She allows my friends to Tuch her and she does just use her tshirt in front of them but is fully covered up when the guys are with their wife’s
The couple massage we had in our vacation was also agreed by her we talk about all this and she loves the attention. The bikinis she uses sometimes gets us in trouble as we are ask to change or leave lol
While my wife was sleeping fully nude on the bed I called the room service ..... man the guy did not know what to do and I got him to place the food just beside her as the table was there and he on purpose placed her thongs and bra on the table so he could move it before placing the food down . I even left him there alone and went to the toilet closing the door . It was a adrenaline rush
I made a few friends here . Yesterday I invited them over to my room while my wife was showering as there is only a clear glass between the room and the shower . My wife was Socked at first and shy but then she carried on . The guys were all hard after seeing. She showered and wrapped her self up . It was so wonderful
