My wife

So not sure if this is the right forum, however my wife and I are having a dry spell and I dont know what she is thinking in the past when we have talked about sex she has intimated that if she had threesome that she would like to invite her gay friend, who she hasn't spoken to for a while, I was wondering if maybe to get inside her head I could try texting her posing to be him and seeing if I could get her to open up to "him" thoughts please.
PS I have tried everything to get her to open up and done all the things people suggest, house work etc been kind spontanius etc with no joy

 

You lost me on that one. Text her posing to be him?

 

Yes as if I was him, sorry if I rambled

 

I got it. No I wouldn't do that. You are trying to deceive her and that will get you in a lot of hot water for sure.

 

Just thought maybe when I was pretending to be him that he would want a 3some with her and see if I could get her talking about to "him"

 

Why don't you just sit her down and ask her so that she knows that you really care about her and want her to be happy?

 

Good plan - Here is an outfit you may want to borrow:

 

I had something to say until I saw Dr rockzo though. Now all I can think about is cocain

 

I'm a little lost. Her gay friend is a dude, and her wife wants a 3sum with him?

If he's gay (not bi, gay) that won't be a 3sum, it'll be you getting it on with 2 people who are sexually disinterested in each other. Or at least one of them will not be interested in the other, even if she digs him.

What's in that for her? Or does she think he's not really gay? Or does she want to see you fuck/be fucked by another man? Or does she want to try to convert him?

You really need to talk this through with her. Deception ain't gonna cut it.

 

Sorry I meant bi, I just want to know if she will flirt etc via text and work out whats going on in her head I have tried talking to her with no joy, dont know if she wants him to do anything to me? or wants to "convert him"

 

Also want to kmow if she really means it about a 3some?

 

Are you sure you don't just want to check on whether she would cheat with her (now bi, formerly gay) friend?

 

No, just want to know if she is able to be flirty and a little dirty.......

 

And pretending to be someone else, whose sexual orientation you aren't sure of, is how you discover that?? Dude, you married her. Surely you know that stuff already.


Or you're a troll.

 

I dont know what a troll is? and she isnt with me but said that in her past she was with her previous partners.... just curious how she'd react

 

I shall now ignore you. Enjoy your fapping.

 

Whatever but this was a genuine question!!! please help

 

So are you attracted to him too

 

If she said she wanted a 3some with him I would do it for her......

 

But are you attracted to him?