Hello everyone I am new here and I need your help with my situation. I love my wife and she loves me. The thing is she lives overseas and I don't see her that much, maybe every 6-8 months . We talk everyday on the phone. We are very open and we trust each other. I never cheated on her and same for her. We talk about our fantasy most of the time and we got excited. Our fantasy is her having sex with another men. This excite both of us itbturns both of us on specially when we masturbate over the phone. And we both imagine someone fucking her. And during that scene she always says she wanna do it. When we finish she says it is only a fantasy. Although for menive always whished it was real. We knows for fact that it excite me and it always does. We have been with this fantasy for over a year and we enjoy it. This week she said she wanna try it and she said she will let me know before it happens and while it is happening and after it happens. She said she want lento enjoy the moment with her. Of course that what we've always wanted. But all this time she was rejecting the idea. But this time she said she want to try it and she said she can do it. I know she can, she had lot of adventures that she told me about. She even told me how her previous boyfriends use to fuck her. And of course that excited me. The hole idea of her having sex with another man excite both of us to the extreme. Well biw I felt she is serious about it. I started having questions. What will happen it we give it a go. I know the risk involved. I will definitely feel jealous . And I told her about the risk of destroying our relationship. She said it will be straight sex only. We had our sexy debate and finally I told her to dismiss the hole idea. She said let's try it just one time and see how it goes. I told her it's too risky. But honestly when she was insisting, I got turned on and I had to masturbate a second time. What can I say , the idea of sharing her turns me on. Today we spoke about it again. And I kinda was serious about dismissing the hole idea. She said that for many months she was against it and that now she feels ready to do it. And she said she will do it for both of us and she said that I want it more than her .and she is right. But I am afraid to destroy our relationship. I know I can stop her from doing it. I know she won't do it against my will. I know she won't cheat behind my back. Part of me say yes and the other says no What do tou think? I want you to decide the highest votes will decide and I will keep you updated.
Not This Tired Old Crap Again.... ..... (bangs head into concrete wall).......(ouch).... Cheers Glen.
If you feel so undecided and conflicted at this point then it's probably not a good idea. You already said that you would feel jealous, it might be best to leave it as just a fantasy, certainly until you feel more positive that you are happy to share your partner in such a way. A saying comes to mind - when all of your wishes are granted, many of your dreams will be destroyed. The reality might not live up to the hype, so if you are both happy why risk it all.
If you trust her the way you say you do I don't see any problem in it, the question really becomes do you trust her as much as you say? If yes then go for it, better to regret the things you've donethan the ones you didn't do.
Your posting narrative contradicts the title, and therefore makes little or no sense. It doesn't merit a "Yes" or "No" answer. If she does it with your knowledge and consent, it isn't "cheating." You simply have cuckold fantasies. They're extremely common. Pedestrian. It's not a man-bites-dog story. It's not even a dog-bites-man story. It's an ordinary, everyday dog-bites-dog story. A real yawner. Google search "cuckolding" and you will find more than you ever wanted to know on the subject right on your screen in seconds, together with an enumeration all of the potential risks and benefits of acting on those fantasies. It's so common that there are many readily available articles and even some scholarly research studies on the subject. My guess is that you have not only cuckolding fantasies, but you derive some prurient arousal and satisfaction from posting here about it. To each his kinks, but count me out of yours.
