My wife hs been into this guy for months and its hot

I'm extremely frustrated and dont know where to release myself. My wife takes hundreds of nudes everyday to this guy, and i find it hot, but i feel lonely. I've never been a jaelous person, i like freewill and have always been into free love where everyone "loves" everyone.
She wants to fuck him so bad, but also she doesn't want me to be all over her. She fucks me when he turns her on( which is all the time) i know she cares about me, shes lovey dovey when hes offline, and is grateful that i let her have two loves. But they just want one on one "time" and not want me to be around.. i dont know what to do with myself, i think its hot, but im also confused.. i only really get drunk anymore and try to occupy myself. She allows me to seek others too, but i havnt been in the dating game for so long, i wouldnt know how to start

 

It doesn’t look like a good situation for you man, talk with her and stick to your needs and she’s your wife, ..... what gives?

 

As long as you can keep any jealousy in check, I'd say let them have some one-on-one time.
Some of the best sex/love making my wife and I have had is when she comes back from her boyfriend's. I know they have "great" sex together (because she shares all the details with me), and that has definitely enhanced our sex life

 

You're obviously really turned on by the idea of your wife being with the other guy. It's kinda understandable that she doesn't want you there when she's"with" him, at least initially (like maybe she wants to cuckold you). I don't really join my wife and her boyfriend either (only once in 6 years).
I don't know if you're "straight" or bisexual, but maybe you could suggest to your wife that you do actually join them, to service" both of them during sex. If you lean to the bisexual side of the spectrum, maybe you could "fluff" him (suck his cock to make him rock hard for her), guide his cock into her, and maybe even eat a nice fresh creampie.
I know if I were to join in with my wife and her boyfriend, I wouldn't necessarily be concerned with my own "needs" and I'd be more than happy to service the both of them to enhance their fun, though I wouldn't say no to bottoming either

 

Women will always have an easier time finding a man than a man will finding a woman. My wife used to say that isn't the case. I told her that assuming the guy was single, she could just walk up to a guy in a bar (or whatever) and tell them to take her home to have sex and 99 times out of 100 it will happen.