I learned a month ago that my wife of 23 years had been seeing a much younger guy. Apparently this guy is muscular and very well built with a reputation for pleasing the ladies, married women to the front so I was told. I tried to get the thoughts of her and him out of my mind but couldn't. Knowing just how much she was being pleasured him...Yesterday I was driving to work and began thinking about it again. To my embarrassment I realized that I had gotten an erection this time. Not sure what tells about me but I'm a bit troubled by it.
It entirely depends on you and what percentage your physical relationship plays in the overall picture, as well as if you are possesive. In a way, it could be seen similarly to Jane going out with friends to enjoy some Irish music which I hate. But when a sexual element is involved, it can be a very dangerous game. However, I have known a couple in that situation and it was just a way of life to them. In their case, both partners were doing the same, so probably you need to ask yourself whether you wife would see it as a big deal if you strayed. The couple who I mentioned did not have children and that seemed to be a major factor. Are you in a similar situation.??
No children here as well. I didn't mention anything to her about the episode I had the other day. They say a man's sperm count increases when he knows his woman is, or was having sex with another man.
