my rant on being single

I am so sick of being single. I am the only one of my friends who is. It's so annoying. I havent had a boyfriend since may though i have had many random hookups. Im sick of it and i want love. I always feel like guys use me (i guess i let them) and i really have no self worth anymore and therefore no confidence to even start a conversation with one. I know subjects to talk about, i just dont have the courageto go up to a guy. I dont know this was my rant. thanks for listening, err *reading*

 

i'm sorry.

i know its cliche, but when you stop looking, love will find you.



if it makes any difference, i'm not good at "having game".. I'm not shy, just dont know what to say. But oh well.

 

Same here. I've been single for over a year, and it feels like I'm getting more and more retarded on what to do to approach girls by the second. Also, it's finding the girl who I know I would like...Perhaps I'm being too picky, but fuck it...I don't care who she is so long as she's intelligent, stunning, and is cultured...

 

... This time yesterday, I would have said all the same things ...

Randomly found something though. Not sure how it'll work out.

Just take your time and look for someone you like as a friend, and think something will develop with. Take it slow, start spending more time with him/her, and see what happens. Never search for love, but search for deeper connections, and wait for love to show.

 

I just want to get laid.

 

I definitely know how you feel...but I just really want a cuddle buddy and a steady lay. Not so much the emotional stuff...

 

lol, physical love, then. Well, in that instance, just stop and think, "What would I want them to do if I were nervous about sleeping with them?"

It's really not nearly as hard to get laid as you think, and if you stop being nervous about it, you're more likely to get some.

 

i have never had a significant other.

and no, i'm not joking with you.

 

I usually enter relationships expecting them to be long-term, which means that I do not enter many relationships.

One day I will find the right girl... right now the only women around me are fat Mexicans and black angus Cows. I'll stay away from those two.

 

Sounds like we're riding in the same boat.

And I for one, enter relations expecting them to be long-term, because it would be illogical and pointless for me to enter one expecting it to be short term. Unless you were just playing hit it or quit it or whatever the hell childish game.

I think alot of things in that people do are back-asswards and illogical. Reminds me of a few lines from Hitchhiker's Guide To the Galaxy.

Oh well, I guess I'm going to go for a swim and dwell on it! Because what better things are there to do on a Friday night than go for a swim and dwell on things. I'm sure a good 60 percent of people in my demographic are getting plastered like a bastard at the present time.

I need a smoke. Shit.

 

Ehh.. I finally figured out my problem recently.

I'm single, and I'm keeping it this way for a while.

Right now I just feel like I'm craving a relationship, but emotionally, I can't handle one right now. Relationships feel too limiting to me, too clingy. I don't want to be anyone's obligation, or have anyone else being mine. I feel like they'll prevent me from leading my own independent life...

Any relationship I've ever been in wound up making me feel like I was being smothered, not by the guys behaviour or anything, just the fact I was in a relationship...

Egh. :uhoh2:

 

i know sister.
you're telling my same exact life.
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i'd go with the, dont look for love let it find you thing. to a point...i've been living by it and have gotten nowhere.

sometimes you just gotta take a chance. sometimes you get hurt. worst thing that could happen right off the bat is get rejected, its bound to happen alot. the more falls you take, the better chance you'll find someone.

i for one suck and hardly take chances. it takes a long time to get into my comforting bubble, and my thought is usually that its gonna end before it starts

 

Love scares me.

Love is something more powerful than anything. It can rip you a new asshole one minute and put you on top of the world the next.

Love also makes me nervous. What if the person you love doesn't love you the same way? What if the person you love finds someone better? What if this, what if that....

I'm kinda neurotic on the subject, but I'm trying to change that.

Because love is also wonderful.

.......I'm just going to enjoy the ride and see what happens.......

 

same here...
i've never been in a long-term relationship. ALLL my friends are.
i just would like somebody to love and for them to love me back. i know it's not that simple, but it would be really nice to find someone that is interested in me but mehh.
"dont look for love let it find you thing" doesn't work for me.

 

See now I kinda enjoy being single, its like so less complicated.


I come and go as I please with no person to answere to.

This is also based on the fact that I have never been thought as being overly brite, lol

 

You see now... that is true...

But then something is always there to remind you

 

I'd really like to have a girlfriend right now ...



But, guess that'll have to wait . But it's not that bad, i'm pretty happy right now and i've got awesome friends. So I can wait until something happens ...

Yeah, that's it ...

 

I analyze things wayyyy too much, the majority of girls in my stage/age don't seem to be as independent or as much of a free thinker as I am, and you're left with too many overpowering memories. That makes me picky and leaves me annoyed or agitated... or at least with a savory bitterness/cynicalities that never seem(s) to want to leave me. To most, I guess it makes me seem like 1) I could be an asshole. 2) I have too much over my head at that given time.

There's my excuse in a nutshell.

 

I live in a place where it's hard to find anyone I can connect with, even on just a friendship level. It's disappointing, but once I get out of here and really start to travel, I know I'll find some great people...just patiently waiting until then.