ive known that im bi for a long time. my thing is... i have no problem with guys. they dont even make me nervous (well, except for a select few), however... with females... i get soooo scared. like scared like a junior high school girl. unless im drunk. i dont know what my question is. but is this normal????
you sound like you are with girls like i am with guys....i think it is normal, but then again i think pretty much everything is normal....
and nothing is normal. duality is the condition in this place. generally speaking, yin mixes better with yang than it does with yin. maybe your body doesn't benefit from it even tho' it's pleasant. who knows? maybe you. I am not a female, much less bi, in this life. and it is my understanding that homosexual intercourse between females is not deleterious at all (unlike male homosexuality) and perhaps even beneficial. but if you experience unrest about this, ask yourself is it from your mind or from your body.....
I'm like that with men I get really uncomfortable and or nervous! Eventually you hopefully will meet a woman that you're really comfortable with. Don't be scared of your own kind. Us chicks need to stick together.....
hehe neck... i agree and im totally comfortable on here or with people ive known for a while but its more girls i dont know much...
I feel, your probably just afraid they might see you, ya know what I mean, see that you like women too and maybe ridicule you or not like you for who you are. You will never know till you let go and just look at it as socializing. I have the same problem with guys now, I have absolutely no guy friends(except for old school friends who keep in touch), I was not always this way. I used to hang with many shoot pool and do stupid stuff, one guy, who I was very close to, hurt me, after that I just feel odd sharing stuff and meeting up with guys. So, maybe some one has hurt you in the past too? maybe? try tracing back to the last girl friend you had! Of course online there are no inhibitions it's easier to talk here!
You are not alone. In my teen years me too felt nervous with girls and boys! I do not want the girls to find out that i like boys and i was scared of the boys finding out that i like boys too, they can be very prejudice and mean towards people like us. I m not sure of the situation in your country but do be careful. Take care..
I am a BI guy, this is normal. Women feel more comfortable around other women and men to be exact. Guys always find it hard to show affection to women little on to other guys. The more you get comfortable being you as BI, the easier it gets. Yeah some guys will never accept you, most will. If you need practice PM me here I will help you.
