my mother thinks i'm a whore.

i want to go to this small party that my friend is having on new year's eve and my dad said i could but that he has some concerns about it (drinking, drugs), but my mom comes home today and brings up the fact that my boyfriend is also going to this party with me and that "things happen."

well, excuse me mother, but what the fuck are you basing this off and why do you think i'm a whore? i've only had one serious boyfriend and boys who are interested in me don't show up too often, so i don't know where you get this "my daughter's a whore" thing from, i'm a fucking virgin!!!! i'm not that stupid. i told you i wasn't ready for sex and there is no way i'm having sex when i'm not on any type of birth control. i'm not that stupid. and where the fuck are we going to have sex??? the middle of the apartment with seven people staring at us??? fuck you. just because we don't have any money to do anything other that sit aorund and watch movies doesn't mean we're jumping each other's bones everytime you leave the fucking room. "nothing leads to bad things"...my ass!

i know, i know, she's just being a good parent, but there's a certain point where you have to just trust your children and know that you've taught them well. am i wrong? if you were my idiotic mother, would you do the same thing or something different? i'm curious if anyone else handles things this way...

 

So, you aren't gonna give it up...
?
:leaving:

 

you better prove her right and get pregnant ASAP!

 

I'm thinking this wasn't the best place to post this...

 

so people that have sex are whores?


besides, everyone knows that fat girls are more likely to give it up because they're insecure...

 

Yea, if someone wants that fatty-fat-fattiness.

 

remember there will be drinking and drugs.someone will want it..

 

new years parties are about how close you can get your climax to the new year

 

Hey baby! What's your sign?

 

lolz...and i'm not saying people who have sex are whores, it's just that she's brought the sex thing up more than a couple of times and it's just like she doesn't listen...but whatever, the boyfriend's a little ticked now...but he'll live. i'll get to go to the party...it's just that, wtf mom?

 

Come on now where’s that rebellious streak of yours

Prove your mother wrong by joining a seminary or convent thereby vowing an oath celibacy


Hotwater

 

I was thinking more along the line of here: http://www.bunnyranch.com/index1.html

 

maybe your mother was a whore when she was your age and she's worried that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree

 

Just a guess, but were you the product of a teen pregnancy?

Tell her you are not planning to have sex until sometime in your 30's...

 

I wouldn't worry about it, there are other things in life bigger than this that you should reflect upon. You are 18 do whatever you want. I understand you still live with your parents, hopefully not for much longer though.

 

hell no, far from it. both me and my sister we're both born after my parents were married.

 

My Mother was convinced I was a satanist based on my cassette collection in the 80's. Clearly she watched too many daytime talk shows.

The only thing I knew about Satan was that he had some really rockin' tunes written about him.

 

I did that when I was 17. It was a sleep over party and I got frisky with this tennis player girl in the same room where everyone was sleeping.

Good times- you should try it.

Edit: I was just reminded of a second occasion in which that happened to me. I forgot her name. I was much older then. Having sex in front of people ftw.

 

Well, tell them to stop watching Oprah...

 

I have no idea what "the ALG" means, but I suppose you're American, ain't you?

Geez, what the hell is with you? Being 18 and asking mom to allow me to go to a party? I've been going out since I was 14, never got pregnant. Never got anything, except drunk.

It's just seems crazy to me. For Christ's sake, just go. You're an adult (at least in Europe). I know your parents take care of you and that stuff, but they must give you a certain freedom.