my mother never hugs me

my mom and brother stopped by for a surprise visit.. and she didn't even try to hug me. i hugged my brother and she made a funny face.. i think it's been over a year since we've hugged.. and the only reason we hugged was because i had my little one in my arms..

is that just weird or am i trippin'? i stood there waiting to be hugged.. even moved a little closer.. but she didn't make a move to do so.. i don't want it to be forced.

 

im a very family oriented person...what the fuck is wrong with her???

 

Hugging, much like fucking, is a two way street. If one person is expecting the other to make all the effort they're not coming back for seconds.

Perhaps you are not as attentive to her needs as you think.

 

she's never really hugged me.. not even as a child. i feel like it's always forced when we do hug.. plus i've noticed.. the few family events when she does hug me.. it's only after she's drunk :H

 

Some people ain't cuddlers.

 

Yeah, I think it just depends who you are, my mother does nothing but try to hug me, and I absolutely hate it.

 

Was she always that way, boog? Maybe she has a "thing" about hugging?

 

Or maybe she just thinks you need a shower.

 

she hugs other people.. but i have noticed how she talks to me and her body language with me.. is the same with people she doesn't like.... it's all really weird.. because i'm adopted.. i wonder if she only adopted me so people would think she's a good person.. she likes to do good deeds just so others with praise her.. hugging isn't a good thing to her i think.


i hugged about 50 people in the past week.. i hugged amma!!!

 

i was IN the shower when she showed up... be nice or i won't play with you

 

i have never hugged my brother and i don't remember the last time i hugged my parents..

i wouldn't take it personally.

 

she probably didn't want to get her clothes wet, then.

 

Woah, you've never hugged your brother??? Why is that?

 

we don't really get along

 

waking life needs a hug ..

GROUP HUG! :grouphug: (((((((wakinglife))))))))

 

Just like in A.A.!

 

I don't really like my parents hugging me either.

 

i love hugs.. i had a good hug from a canadian man the other night... i'd like to hug him again!

 

Ahh rephrased. I don't really like anybody touching me except the girlfriend.

 

I hug everyone. I constantly hug my lil sis and lil bro. I totally cuddle with them too. We are the type of kids who snuggle in one bed to watch a movie and then fall asleep awwww too cheesy