my little sister is 13, and I just think my mom is a bad mom. Not just for getting implants, but she really acts like a stupid blonde, we don't even really talk. I get most of my info from my sister. My mom doesn't even ask me about my plans for college, she's more interested in fake boobs than her own daughter. I work and have signed up the SAT myself and I just hope when I apply for college, they will be willing to pay for my education considering they're willing to spend this amount of money on something so superficial. My mom is 39 going on 40, she's tan blonde blue eyed and pretty. She has a flat stomach, and is in shape, I can't even say that for myself. I guess she's just really into her looks where, of course I care, but I wouldn't ever get breast implants, and I like guys to think more about me than my boobs. And I don't think my mom's boobs are sagging or are tiny. They're the same as mine, were like the same body type. She said she's wanted them 5 years. I think she's just a dumb ho.
Just tell her how you feel. I would... I did when I was living with mine and my parents were always pissed off at me, haha. (Although I never had to deal with things such as Mom getting fake breats) But I still say speak your mind!
Wow. With that attitude, why on earth do you think your parents should be willing to pay for your education? I thought I had serious issues with my mother, but even I would never say something like that. You are 19, at least according to the profile under your avatar. You should be able to sign up for the SAT on your own & hold down a job if you are not in school. On the higher ed forum, you posted that you have already been kicked out of one school for smoking pot in the dorms (I have nothing against weed, but smoking where you are likely to be caught is just stupid and/or immature). In another forum, you talked about your addiction to xanax. Frankly, if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't expect my parents to pay tuition until I had gotten clean and proven that I deserve it. Calling your mother a "dumb ho" certainly doesn't work to show you deserve her support. You really don't seem to be in any position to criticize your mother so severely just for wanting to perk up her boobs.
Ya know, dawn_sky makes a good point. You are criticizing her decision when you make pretty shitty ones yourself. Unprotected sex, drugs, etc. Your reasons for your mom not to get a boob job is to pay for your college? That's not a right. You have to earn that. Why should she waste 10's of thousands of dollars on you when all you will probably do is drop out or get kicked out? Pain killers are a serious fucking thing. You needed to straighten your shit up before even thinking about GOING to college.
Rock on mom! I think it is great that she is doing somthing for herself. (but I hope she is doing it for herself and not just you dad). If she has been wearing small bra's to give her the boob image she wants, then she has been wanting the implants for a while. At least she's not going big like Anna Nicole. Even if you don't really agree with it, you should support her. Just think, if you wanted to do somthing for yourself, or you had a secret you wanted to tell her, you would want her to be supportive right? Would you feel the same if your mom wanted a breast reduction??? Good luck mom!
Exactly (to the last post of two)... i wouldnt do it myself but i can understand it. it's HER decision, whether you like it or not... you might not agree but you know, she IS her own person. and also, not to try to turn the card on me... but at 18, i was kicked out for smoking pot (very conservative mom)... im now 24 and im putting myself through school. you cant really expect your mother to pay for your education and make it sound like it's a big deal that you went to take the SATS yourself. maybe you need to mature a little to be able to understand some things...
when iwas younger i dreamed of having breast implants cos i was so flat chested. I'm still flat chested (i'm a small A cup) but I dont think i\ve got the guts to have surgery to make them bigger. I mean what's the point? who says bigger boobs are more attractive? society! I'm not going to go under the knife to be accepted by society. If a guy's going to like me, he's going to like me for who I am, not my boobs! perhaps in your mom's case, she needs to feel more desired, and thinks having bigger breasts will do it for her. It's her decision, she's a grown woman, i know it's weird from your point of view, but, you can't tell her what to do...just let her be happy. her mission of looking after you has ended. she now needs to enjoy herself. just let her be.