6 and 3 years old. all they ever do is fight from the moment i pick my daughter up at school. it's constant. i've done mediation, reasoning, seperate corners, mutual punishment, fairness, etc. yesterday i was just too sick and tired, literally, to give a shit. so i let them duke it out. if they wanna bloody each other over a stupid chair, fine. i did not interfere in any way shape or form. it ended with both of them crying, my six year old too tired to deal with the rest of the day and going to sleep. my three year old, who doesn't know what a grudge is sat with her and pet her hair until she went to sleep. this morning, the battle was about to begin anew: breakfast time, they both want the same chair. what did my 6 year old do? she made the decision that she didn't want to fight over the stupid chair again and sat in the exact same sort of chair right next to it. THANK GOD. and what did joey do? she decided that since she didn't get to fight over the stupid chair that kai could have it if she wanted it. a month long battle over one stupid chair is OVER. kids are weird, man.