my girlfriend is amazing, quirky, fun and beautiful, but not always. she was born with a social problem, learning right from wrong was so black and white for her that a lot of things she doesn't know how bad they are. so lately she has become so out of control me and my friends can't control her, we try and limit her drinking (she is so sensitive so if she drinks the same as us she will get so drunk) but its not working, she swears a lot, she gets angry so much that she goes on swearing rampages at me, i tried to put her over my lap the other day because she was so out of control, somehow she punched me in the face and now i can't really see through one eye. i have never laid a finger on her(to try to discipline her), i try and talk to her, i help her concentrate on her work and explain a lot of things to her. she shows amazing appreciation, she is really loving and tells me every day. i knew she felt bad about what happened the other day, its like she can't control herself. but its gone from bad to worse, she was arrested for disorderly conduct but without charge. i picked her up from the station and she looked sadly at me(and my black eye) she's been in her room all day(college campus) and has texted how sorry she is. i was just thinking, should i spank her just this once? id hate it but she needs help so badly and I'm not sure how to get my point across, we tried to talk after her drunk and swearing incident, but she shouted at me and called me things, this was when i put her over the knee and said my parents spanked naughty kids, you are behaving like one- or something along the lines of that. then she punched me because her stomach muscles are very strong. and i wasn't holding her upper body (i can restrain her easily normally because she is very small and i am tall and strongish...) so should i spank her? and how, I've never had this problem before. i refuse to ever use a belt, switch, cane or paddle, btw, i guess other stuff may be ok. if you answer please be specific!!!