Hello all, I have a big problem (only I not my girlfriend ) My girl doesn't want to suck my duck!!! We fucked together already and everything is alright but she just doesnt want to hold him or anything... What should i do?
Ask her why she doesn't want to. For some, its just a disgusting idea. For others, it is viewed as demeaning. There are a number of reasons she might not want to. Some of the reasons you can fix and others you cant. Whatever her motive, being supportive and respectful will get you a lot farther than "why won't you suck my duck" Peace
I'm soft and tender to her, I tried to discuss it with her but she just said she doesn't like it. I fully respect it but I never had a problem with a girlfriend... and never with a oral sex
I would just discuss it with her. I must say I find it unusual that she won't even touch it!!! Quite a few girl's, especially when young, wont suck dick but I don't think I have ever heard of 1 not wanting to even touch it. I would have thought curiosity would over rule there!!!
I stayed with a girl who was very sexually shy for two and a half years, and she never performed oral on me, either. When we broke up, that was NEVER the reason for it, but something totally unrelated to sex. There ARE guys who are patient about this kind of thing. So yes, BE PATIENT with her. If she doesn't feel comfortable doing it, then you should respect that. What you can do is to help her become more comfortable with the idea of performing oral sex WITHOUT pressuring her. Like I said, you have to be patient. In the meantime, though... I'd stop sulking if I were you, because she's at least given you the privilege to perform oral on her. Wouldn't you rather have that, than have her give you oral while she wouldn't let you lick her pussy?
I used to be the same way. When I was in my late teens and until recently actually my sex drive was pretty low and I didn't really wanna do much besides getting it over with. Now, Im reaching 30 and I can't get enough. Shit, I'lle suck it, fuck it.... anyway he wants it ;-) Im lovin' this "hitting my peak" thang.... For the 1st time in my life I can say I love sex and want to do it as much as I can!! (including sucking !!!)
if she doesnt want to dont fucking force it! youd be a complete KNOB if you did, and i would be happy if she dumped you, however, i was like that at first, its the whole 'not knowing what to do' that did it for me, i still dont like giving hand, touch it is fine and i give oral,, which i didnt want to do at forst but once youve done it once its fine, an its well hot
DEF. respect her....it took me almost 6 months before i did that to my boyfriend and we started having sex after a month....trust me when she is ready she will do it..just give her time..and dont have her do it when u guys are drunk...lol my boyfriends first time form me was when we were plastered and then it didnt mean as much..but now its amazing! just giver her time she will come around.
ummm thats really shallow..and most girls wont repesct that unless they are just in something for sex and not a relationship