my girl only cums half way

we've been having sex for a while now and she is saying that it is getting better and better but when we talk about it, she seems shy OR it seems she doesn't want to say that she is not fully satisfied..

When we talked about it, she said that she only reaches so far.. like half orgasms.

half orgasms?what does it mean? what's missing.. how should i improve myself? i cant figure out her and i feel she can't either, so i'll ask you.

 

huh?
i don't get it
half an orgasm?
maybe she freaks out halfway through
it's probably not you, she's just not comfortable yet i would assume

 

1/2 orgasms are 0 orgasms.

 

You should only come half way too then

 

She's lying to you and your genitals are inadequate to please a female prepare for a break up.

 

Maybe her orgasms are half of what she got from previous lovers?

 

It means that it's starting to feel really good but for some reason she can't relax enough to enjoy an orgasm with you. Keep working on it, the more you do it the more comfortable she'll get. She could be just about to orgasm but has too much on her mind and is generally thinking too much.

Try talking dirty to her.. to keep her mind on the moment.

 

Let her take charge and do what feels good to her. I always have better orgasms from penetration when I have a clit-gasm first.

I have the best orgasms from rubbing my clit with his penis.

Maybe you want to try it out. Just rub the tip gently on her clit and let her try different angles and techniques. If she has trouble reaching orgasm it might take awhile but it'll be easier than trying to give oral for a long time and there are so many options for positions.

like if you sit on the couch, she gets on top. Let your dick rest flat against her and let her slide along it.

 

truth

 

Isn't that kinda similar to being 1/2 pregnant? :willy_nilly:

 

I've never had half an orgasm. Maybe almost had an orgasm, but never half of one.

 

sex rarely hits the spot. i wager other things do it better for women - sex is more fulfilling for men.

 

sooooooo not true
at least for me

 

your gf seems to be happy with you and with your sex life. I don't think that you should worry too much.

while orgasms are wonderful things, I think that it is a mistake to consider it the holy grail of your sex life or your relationship. certainly don't let your sense of self-worth or the value of the relationship hang on your ability to give your gf an orgasm

you might want to try learning about and performing oral sex on her. just ask first if that is something that she would be into

you could perform oral sex on her until she comes, or use it as foreplay.

I don't think that you have to torment yourself about this issue though

 

Not true for me either.

 

I think she is tensing up and isn't completely with you mentally. I agree with someone who said try dirty talk to keep her focussed. Ever tried watching porn together? That could bring one on quickly if she's into that.

 

Use the remaining 8 inches of your dick

 

For sure.

Try mazerati's, fur coats incorporating the pelts of endangered species, overpriced chunks of clear rock without "cubic" in the name, and weekly vacations to paris.

Those will all make her cum buckets.

 

Make her feel comfortable, make her some nice food, then run a nice bubble bath which you guys can share together, then take her into the candle lit bedroom, take it very slowly, kiss her all over, make her feel like she is the only person in the world, oh yeah, use oral sex AND fingers... You'll have her squealing with pleasure in no time... As for porn, tread carefully with that, some girls will love it, others, completely the opposite...

It is also worth asking of she has made HERSELF cum yet. You may be surprised to find that some girls can find it very difficult.

Happy humping!

I leave you with this, which may give you a better understanding of the difference between guys and girls:

 

^ Ha!

Very true