I never had much of a problem with him until my other mate told me that he's been bitching to her about how I hate him and am always yelling at him. I don't remember yelling at him - I've given him a few harsh words for being too rough with my kitten a couple of times but thats about it. No one else in the flat remembers me yelling at him. I suppose I could go and tell him that I don't hate him, but just the fact that he's been bitching behind my back about it makes me dislike him. Oh well, I guess he gets what he wants. So I now hate him for thinking that I hated him when I didn't hate him... make sense?
i think you should approach him, nicely, and discuss things. if you ignore them, it will only get worse. straighten things out, trust me, you dont want to have a bad relationship with someone you live with. things could get very ugly very fast.
I'm hopefully not going to be living with him for very long so it's not too big a deal. And we're both nice to each other when we see each other. It's only behind my back that he says I yell at him and am so against him. It is annoying though cos he can be REALLY negative and, like pizzicatofive said, it brings bad vibes into the flat.
did you know they have raining blood by slayer on guitar hero 3. can you imagine that on the hard setting?
nothing really, i just wanted to be random. man raining blood is one of the best heavy metal songs out there. you should try to be open minded when it comes to music. peace
ooooh i'm totally openminded when it comes to music. i listen to literally everything, metal included, but I just don't like slayer's sound that much.
Sounds like your friend had a self fulfilling prophecy, that you hated him. Low and behold it became true!
Exactly! Man, he's so negative. Like, he's into all the science-y type stuff that says all we are is particles and atoms and whatever, so that means that life is actually nothing but a coincidence, there's no Greater Power, nothing to look forward to after death, no universal connection between humankind and no one is actually worth anything. It's just like, dude, how can you not understand how special and important each person is! We're all such amazing creations that it CAN'T all be coincidence. I don't get why he's so into that sort of thing when all it does is make him unhappy. He's almost like a little kid who's just been told that Santa Claus isn't real.
