Just go to a place where there are plenty of horny gay and bi people. I'm sure these places are much easier to find than you think. And if you really have got to get your fix THIS MINUTE then go to a site for bisexual personals. I'll be honest with you that this is precisely my problem...I'd suck anyone's dick who wanted it assuming they were STD free. And I think I am not alone in this respect. Good luck!
THIS... The thing about the m2m sex is that it usually does NOT require any romantic prelude at all. Romance is sure an option but it ain't by any means mandatory. Once you grasp this, everything becomes much easier... KD
I answered a personal ad from a man who sounded just right for me; and he was! We kissed, sucked each other's cocks and wanked each other off on that first occasion at his house. It's a great memory to have of my first bi-sexual experience.
I've been wondering if there is a physiological explanation for the differences in sexual behavior between m2m and m2f relationships. I'm just curious to what extent it is actual in the attraction and to what extent it is socially imposed. I myself don't feel the same drive for traditional sex as I do for gay sex and also, as an extension, for giving women oral sex. I feel there is an oral fixation, be it cock or clit. The thought of a cock throbbing in my mouth and down my throat or seeing a woman's body quake from pleasure is really what motivates me to want to do these things more than an "attraction" to the person. And although I certainly am interested in traditional sex between a man and woman, it seems more like a fix, like "getting high" than some romantic climax. What are your thoughts about this?
The evolutionary theory has it that the cost of the sexual intercourse for males remains negligible. A few minutes later a dude is up and runnin' and he is not defenceless as he would be during the actual intercourse. His evolutionary mission is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible, AND move on to do the same over and over again after a very short recovery phase. By this very same token the evolutionary cost of the sexual intercourse for the females is very high, involving long pregnancy, child-raising, etc.. Hence, the females see every reason to select their partners very carefully hoping that their partners would help shoulder some of the high evolutionary cost of the intercourse. Enters all the romantic stuff in the world, m2f bonding and what not... We have been all culturally conditioned to move as far away as possible from the evolutionary concept I outlined above. Societies, religious groups, various governments, etc., see regulating our sexual lives as one of their very primary goals. Non-compliance in the old days would have invariably invoked the anger of one or several almighty gods. These days, the same non-compliance may sideline you away from the mainstream. When you come to think about it, not much has changed. Just as the wrath of god(s) used to be a figment of politically expedient imagination so is the threat being 'sidelined'. Since quite a few people still fall for it, so much is achieved by a very minimal investment KD
My first true experience was a craigslist reply to an ad I posted. I know that its not the best way but where I am its the only way unfortunately. I had what I call learning situations prior to. It was a pleasurable experience. That was the first time I got to experience good anal I now know that I like it and am looking for someone that is a well endowed top to play with next.
Experimenting after soccor practice. Went deep in the forest by our house. Compared cocks and stroked each other then took turns sucking each other. Continued over the years at each others houses, watching porn or role playing to some situation needed for one of use to get naked. First time we jerked off in front of each other i got interested and asked if i could hold his cock in my hand and feel it throb next time. The throbbing in my hand got me hooked for years to cum. Eventually i wanted that throbbing in my mouth and ass.
years ago now - i answered a small ad and went to stay the weekend with a big (well-endowed) west African in London. Got well and truly fucked - end of my m2m virginity! Simon
The first time i answered an ad was scary. I always had those thoughts that maybe it was a fake ad but the profile pic was a huge 9 inch and i was too interested to see it in person. Pretty weird to meet him with just a towel on in his apartment. Straight to business soon after a light convo. Was so much fun trying to fit that monster in my mouth.
