my firends first GF???

well my friend met this chick a yr ago where we used to work (a coffee shop2007). well they talked talked talked and i THINK he went out on one date. Well after three months of i guess" being" his girlfriend she proposed?!

by now shes 17 going into senior yr of high school , her high school which is a very hard school to get in, so i know shes smart. So my dumb ass friends like "oh well she proposed to me so im going to buy a $600.00 ring" which he does, note she proposed after three months of being his gf. well she barely goes out with her during her senior like three times and he only met ONE of her nerdy guy friends. so prom comes up and here comes my friend and buys her prom tickets ! WTF and doesnt even go to the after party!!! (at my prom i remember all girls had there bf there even if they were in college ).

another thing he tolled me was that his paying for her credit cards?? that "her" mother is using her credit cards with out her permission?? well two month to her graduation she tells him " find an apartment so we can move together" so he moves out of his parents place in may 08. Now a week before graduation she tells him "oh i have to go to puerto rico with my mother " ok i understand she loves her mother. well then his pissed off and HE tells me that she will come back on aug.08 to go to school in florida....well surprise "oh i cant come becuase of my moms cancer but in jan.09 for sure" well at this point i think its bullshit because my friend tells me that she only talks to him at 8am of the morning once a week??? so now i cant believe that shes only able to talk to him once a week ?like Puerto is a communist estate???? also he tells me that he puts money in her account?? when she asks?
now its the 09 and isnt here?

i just need to know his being played?? i notice my friend being a very desperate person in always wanting to have thing first to show off which doesnt brother me becuz its his nature. so i guess he doesnt want to break up with her.

so im just wondering if is normal to be like this fake material chick??

i posted this on the women thread......

 

Your friend is the ultimate sucker. Tell him to stop giving her money and see how long it takes before he never hears from her again.

 

she's a leech, not a girlfriend.

 

i posted this same post on the womens thread no response!


thank you glad to hear from real men

 

Shes going to use him until he has no money left and leave him with all the debt.

Also, I'm a girl. XP

 

tsk tsk. totally played.

 

That's a total bitch!! Tell your friend he's been used..badly. Actually what he should do is fuck her and then leave her.

 

Fuck her twice and then leave her

 

his got a blow job outside her house and fucked like three times but i dnt think thats worth 600 dollar ring

 

well guys last night was com firmed shes not "coming" til 2009 summer

 

Dude, tell ur friend what i said

 

How old is your friend?

 

The situation you describe is, . . a girl using a "nice guy".
You've heard the saying that nice guys finish last, and that girls only date jerks right? A lot of the time that's true, especially with younger females. However, one doesn't have to be a jerk, you just have to be a MAN and have boundaries. Your friend, from what you've said, lacks boundaries.

 

20 and shes 19 just turn

 

What a whore

 

is he really ugly and she's all he can get?

 

his red head, NERDY, fat, and rich

shes cute but chunky and short

but to everys own standards....

 

yeah, could be his type. redhead isn't really a problem here in the states. the fat and nerdy could be trouble for him. my uncle was in the same situation, being lanky and nerdy. his sow of a wife took advantage of him in every way possible and despite being viciously ugly and obese, still left him for another man. bizarre. he's better off.

anyway, your friend is allowing loneliness and desperation buy him the equivalent of a whore...no way to get him out of it so long as he buys in.

 

yeh this is the basic reason why i think his with her

 

lulz pwnT!