my fault or his

question- back just over a year ago I was sat at a table in a club, my husband had gone to the gents,
at the bar there was to me an attractive man, so I started to cross and uncross my legs knowing that movement always draws
the eye, I was indeed showing quite a lot of leg, I know that I had his attention, but also unknown to me at that time
another man had also been looking,
later when I went pass the bar this other man wanted to chat me up, now the question was he at fault for trying it on
or my fault for not looking around to see if I had attracted the attention of other men maybe
the man that I found attractive joined my husband and I in a threesome about a month later

 

If you are deliberately showing off you can expect more than one man to look and be interested in you, the more you show the more they will be interested. No-one is at fault, it's your right to show off if you want to, it's ok for him to look too even if it wasn't your intention. If he tried to chat you up and you politely declined then no harm done.

 

Both.............

 

My wife would deliberately show off a bit in bars when we were on vacation. I enjoyed seeing men flirt with her, knowing she was going home with me.

 

Threesomes are awesome for sure my wife and I have been in them and often why not, there awesome like I said..... I sucked my first cock in our first threesome. That's how I became a bisexual. I didn't plan it............it just happened.

 

If you got it flaunt it just be cautious as to who may be watching because there are some real creeps out there

 

I love little naughty girls ......are you one of them my dear. I bet you have a awesome body and a nice pair of legs.....am I right my dear.....! and you are naughty...lol

 

That makes sense.................good luck.

 

I wouldn't call it "fault". You showed off in public and naturally caught the eye of more than one person. I know today's attitudes are different but in some ways, you should be pleased that he found you alluring. And getting a threesome....good for you! I hope the end result was as good as the chase!

 

I don't think you did anything wrong. Typical night at the bar!

 

For only for those that take advantage of it.....................

 

You never know who is reading the advertisements.
I don't think there's any harm in attracting a bit of attention but you have little control over who's checking in a bar and zero control over the types doing the checking.

 

and if you both enjoy it........it's no one's fault..........

 

Weysally I say again your a beauty..............

 

My wife often goes out with the girls and yes she show all of her assets and why not if you got it why not show it.........

 

Absolutely fun. Over the years have had to encourage her, bought her a half-bra and an open nipple one, and a couple of thin-ish fabric blouses. Oddly enough, awhile back, short skirts and bending over or stockings showing went easily. Must be the being able to see being checked out that worries them.

 

"...and why not if you got it why not show it........"

In my 20s I dated a conservative girl. Once, visiting at her granny's, I overheard granny tell her something about her nice breasts and the way she dressed that has stayed with me. And here I quote, "Use it while you got it honey, cause you ain't gonna have it for long." Truer words were never spoken.

 

True words...........Time catches every one.............even me....lol

 

I love checking women out especially when they wear yoga pants or a sexy short skirt and no bra but I’m not going to ogle her and will only approach her if I know she’s interested in me and I’ve had alot to drink lol

 

So weysally, if you're still around, and for other females who may be visiting, that quote from an old granny lady is still true.

"...Use it while you got it honey, cause you ain't gonna have it for long." Truer words were never spoken. F.W.I.W.