My Family Thinks I'm A Pill-Popping Alcoholic

Basically the title.

I've come home 2 or 3 times drunk. I get drunk once (or twice once every 3 months tops) on weekends (meaning Fri, Sat, Sun), and not even black-out fuckup drunk, just, social drunk.

Once I've been caught by the police, just by pure bad luck, having a single tablet of Ritalin on me, which is a controlled substance. I've been caught a couple times for weed, never charged though.

And not too long ago, someone texted my phone saying they had oxy's for me, my parents saw it cause I got it while I was in the shower, and then flipped out. I didn't even ask the guy for oxys, he said he thought he was doing me a favour!

And, recently, tons of money n valuables has been going missing from my family, and my sister's boyfriend who lives with us. It's probably surpassed 1000$ worth of stolen property since X-Mas, and my sister just had another 40$ stolen from her.

Anyway, my family thinks I'm a pill-popping alcoholic who steals shit from everyone to support my addictions. BTW, I only drink socially on weekends, and I don't pop pills ever since last summer.

So how can I get my family to see that I'm not what they think?

Or failing that, is it illegal to just live at someone elses house without my parents knowing? (Cause they'll call the police looking for me probly)

My parents are OK with me smoking weed, btw.

 

Update:
I kicked my door and it fell off the hinges because I was angry. My mom found the medicine chest open and thinks im high on meds, door fell over hit her in the back of the head, forced her face into the cupboard. Family thinks i tried to kill her now.

 

You're kicking down doors because you're angry.
You're anger is accidentaly causing injury to your mother.

Kicking a door off of its hinges is not easy.

It sounds like you under 18, but you have a medicine cabinet full of pills.

It sounds like you have some problems (other than a poor reputation) and hope that you find a professional to help you with them by some method other than giving you meds.

 

It's great once your parents finally learn you're a fuck up. No more sneaking around and meeting their expectations is so much easier, at least when mine first learned I was a fuck up.

 

:cheers2: my parents are finally learning a little at a time and slowly lowering expectations and its much nicer

 

I'll admit I do have anger issues, but it's not soluble until I move out. My entire family sorta hates me, not the best vibe, ya know?

Also, I'm not sure if it was implied or something, but the medicine cabinet isn't "Mine". It's also got a heavy-duty lock on it that was open, i think because my sister (little one) went and got her antibiotics out so she could feel grownup taking them herself.

 

so what the hell, do they even suspect it could be the boyfriend stealing things from the house? Everyone is just pinning it on you...take a break from stuff for awhile, weed is ok but you probably need to rebuild some trust from your family ya know.