I am married to a great guy and we have a daughter together. We have our rough moments but normally things are awesome. My own personal battle is that I can't get my ex-girlfriend out of my head. At all. She is his ex as well and we have an agreement that neither of us talk to her. But I can't help it. I dream about her so vividly that I wake up with goosebumps and the feeling of her beside me. I miss her so much but I don't want to mess up my marriage. Its not a question of who I want to be with. Its just driving me crazy to not even talk to her...I dont know what to do. This probably sounds pathetic but I just needed to get it out and talk about it. Possibly making it better...
Just remember what you have at home. I have issues with my partners ex's. It can really mess shit up.
I understand. Even though your situation is much more serious, I've got something similar with my ex. I'm happy with my current bf but still can't get my ex out of my head. The difference between you and me is that you have your family. I hope you'll get over it. I'm sure one day we will forget our ex-es.
yup, the ex can always throw something in the fire. well, id suggest to try not thinking about her at all. cause to have such a vivid dream about her, you are most likely going about your day with a thought of her. maybe you do something that reminds you or you just think about her. being the situation you are in, id say stop. and dont talk to her at all, seems like that would be one of the worst things you could do since you obviously have some deep emotional feelings for her. free your mind of her... asap
Yup. My husband doesn't like the idea of it since there are actual feelings between she and I. He says he could never do that actually because he cares so much for me. I understand where he's coming from though because of what is between she and I is strong.....
