My dad is getting married

he likes too get drunk and verbally abuse her not Mention his daughters me and my sisters he gets drunk and calls her a bitch and sends her nasty text messages when she is trying too get some sleep to go too work the next day he called my sister up one night was drunk and called her a little bitch I don’t wanna go to this wedding she could do so much better then my dad

 

and put shit of Facebook saying me and my sisters are shitty daughters

 

I hate this Facebook cell phone shit

 

He wants too play the victim it’s like put down the fucking bottle if not for himself then for you’re daughters

 

It sounds like your dad and my dad should get together and go bowling.

 

Well, as many have said, there is no accounting for taste. This is a sad story, and I fear not all that uncommon. I sure hope you are no longer reliant on your father for financial support. If not, if I were you I would move on an never look back. Best of luck to you.

 

Another bad thing his doing he has liver failure from drinking his gonna die if he keeps drinking I’m so tired I don’t not feel good anymore since being on oxygen my mental heat his not good it I’m tired of his crap

 

Lol breakfast club

 

I feel pressured in going my other sister said well I’m gonna be supported I would never be disrespectful or mean like my dad is I’m just done with his crap

 

If it were me, I just wouldn't go to the wedding... That being said you can always go to the service, if there is one, and then go home. Nothing says you have to go to the reception.

 

I guess there is always hope his new bride will change his ways. Also, it sounds like his health is not so good and that his time left on earth may be limited. Those realities could very well have a positive impact on his behavior. It won't hurt to go to his wedding and give him one last chance.

 

It’s an hour half away I don’t drive my sister Jackie is going said she would pick me up Sarah will not be going other sister I don’t know if there will be a place too plug in my oxygen uint I have a car charger and bigger battery that I will bring

 

I guess she has always been in abuse of relationships so that’s all she knows is abuse

 

Both my dads parents were alcohols my grandpa was 7 years sober when he passed away my gram is still living but she still drinks her wine and also has allot of heath problems because of it

 

Sounds like a good p[an to me, hopefully both of them would get a very clear message.
Perhaps tell the blushing bride about her plans in advance, explaining that is is not her she is avoiding.
Who knows, she may come to her senses and call the whole thing off.

 

I'm just wondering how an abusing guy with a serious liver problem is regarded as marriage material?

 

Damaged people seek damaged people.

 

I don’t know maybe she thinks she can save my dad I guess she has no one no family only my dad

 

I’m sorry I don’t wanna go to this pretend wedding with how he treats women he says he loves

 

He has mad me and my sister both cry cause of how mean he gets and drunk