My current boyfriend and I had sex...

Discussion in 'True Confessions' started by VirulentCatastrophe, Feb 15, 2009.

  1. ...while he was still dating his ex, who I had known for eight years.

    I'm a bad person. :(
     
  2. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Nah, maybe you didnt do the right thing, but as far as people go, that doesnt make you bad.
     
  3. Trips509

    Trips509 Member

    If he was able to cheat on his ex (even thought it was with you) than he can probable cheat again.
     
  4. You're a bad person? Howcome you don't think he's a bad person for cheating on his ex with you?
     
  5. mr.greenxxx

    mr.greenxxx Not an Average Bear

    ^ maybe she seduced him.
     
  6. chemigals

    chemigals They call me Chemi

    do you feel bad?
    If so yeah u are dont really matter wat we think
     
  7. chemigals

    chemigals They call me Chemi

    but not a nice thought you are sharing 'stuff' between the 3 of you ..................
     
  8. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

    does the ex know about it?
     
  9. So what? It doesn't matter if she seduced him or not. If she held a gun to his head I would understand it. In the end he chose to be with her yet she feels like she's a bad person. I don't get it. Personally, I think if anything, they're both guilty.
     
  10. mr.greenxxx

    mr.greenxxx Not an Average Bear

    Some people are easier 'persuaded' to make certain choices then others, hell most are, especially if theres emotional/relationship issues or substances involved.

    But i agree with what you said about both being guilty.
     
  11. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

    And if you feel guilty...well, you'll probably just feel guilty forever. I just kissed a guy a few times in high school, knowing he had a girlfriend, and that was years and years ago and I still feel guilty and still think I should. You were both wrong and expect he'll do the same to you. I've seen it way too many times. Get prepared for the heartbreak, because it's coming.
     
  12. Gumby

    Gumby Banned

    Karma has great ways of manifesting itself...
     
  13. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Where did she say she doesnt think he is a bad person? maybe this thread is about her and not her boyfriend? maybe she is more concerned with her own morality?
     
  14. She didn't say that. But she should know that she isn't the only one at fault. If she's a bad person then he's just as bad. When I read it I get the impression she blames herself.
     
  15. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Well im not excusing his actions but she does have only herself to blame, as you said unless she had a gun to her head, she had a choice.

    Anyway, cheating sux but i dont think it is a super big deal either, not that i've ever cheated, i dont see the point.
     
  16. Cheating is wrong.
    Helping people cheat is wrong.
    You ARE a bad person.
    And so is he.

    I'm sorry, but I'm only being honest.
     
  17. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

    The world isn't so black and white once you get out into the world. Making mistakes doesn't make you a bad person. Are you perfect? I highly doubt it, so you're in no place to decide if a person is "bad" or not.
     
  18. Vit82

    Vit82 Guest

    why am I not surprise?? :)
     
  19. mr.greenxxx

    mr.greenxxx Not an Average Bear

    :)

    it took me too long to finally accept this.
     
  20. Haha obviously the world is not black and white, I am not colorblind, I see color.
    My mistakes are not being questioned here, and I never claimed to be perfect...
    Nor did I say I was a good person.
    I'm pointing out that doing that makes her a bad person, and she should regret it.
    Maybe I'm a bad person too. Hah. So don't assume I'm calling myself perfect when I point out flaws in others.
     

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