My boyfriend is very closeminded when it comes to sex

So I'm in a new relationship and I have a lot of sexual experience but he doesnt. It bothers me. I want him to broaden his sexual horizons. I need help. I can't seem to tell him in a way to get him to open to up to more ideas. Or even to change the way he thinks about sex.
He thinks sex is only the physical act and that there isn't more to it than that.

 

It may be time for a new boyfriend.....

 

Maybe it's up to you to take the lead for a while. I'm sure it's in there, you just might have to teach him a bit. Contrary to popular belief, men actually do not know everything.

 

I agree. Everyone has the desire, sometimes deeply hidden. Like a buried treasure when you find it the reward is tremendous.

 

Don't tell him you want to do something else just do it, break him in a little at a time time. Show him how intimate sex is better than hooker sex or porn sex.

 

I'd give him a few more chances. Especially in this climate. But once things return to normal you should look for greener pastures.

 

Some people are just vanilla, and that is who they are.
He could also have a lack of confidence.
Either way, you can't make him like it. He either has the desire or he don't.

 

Well that's not exactly true. I'm sure I could. But he's not my boyfriend so she has few choices.

 

You mean your husband, don't you?

 

You really need to decide if it's a deal breaker or not. I don't know how you feel about him or if he's husband material but assuming he is a great guy and you love him, it might be worth the effort to get him to come around to your way of thinking. However, sometimes people just won't change and you just give up what you want sexually in order to keep the relationship. If he's not that great and your not in love, you are probably better off moving on.