My best friend is leaving me!!!!

I cried when she called me.
I was at another friends house, stoned as fuck, making food. She killed my buzz and the pizza sucked.
She's moving 3 hours away.
Theu usual lines were used, such as 'we'll talk all the time, and you can come see me and spend the weekend and we'll go to th river'
Yeah, okay.
She was my first REAL friend. The kind that was there no matter what, and always kept her word.
I am gonna help her move and stuff, and probably gonna stay with her for a few days to help her unpack and stuff..
I dunno whats gonna happen after that. Probably talk to her less and less and not see her anymore.
Im gonna go cry some more.

 

sucks, sorry to hear it.

 

Aww, I'm sorry, but.. 3 hours isn't that far! I know it can seem like the other end of the world to some people.. but.. I'm always about.. hmm.. 5000 miles away from HALF of my friends and most of the time, family.. and.. you eventually get used to it.

Get a webcam if you don't already have one, keep in touch that way, it's like being in the same room!

 

That sucks
3 hours really is not that far..but, then again, it is far enough to make visits way less frequently..is she moving to San Antonio?

 

that's a drag. I agree though 3 hours is not too too bad, you'll still be able to see them- oviouslly still sucks though have any distance at all, but a large amount of my friends like at least 2 days drive away.

 

oh I mean, you'll have to plan for three hours, and it'll be tricky to fit into your schedule, but it's doable.

 

totally, especially if it's a really good friend.

ill tell you what, hilder, my best friend graduated high school a year before me and moved to philly for art school. since then she's lived in pennsylvania, arizona, washington state, and now georgia. it's been years and we go years without seeing each other and even sometimes weeks or months between conversations, but we keep in touch and we're still good friends.

it's not always the way you want a friendship to go, but it works if it deserves to. if you really care about this person and she cares about you, too, then you'll stay friends for quite some time.

3 hours isn't TOO much, anyway.

 

awww no sucks

i no how it feels

my best friend moved away (first real friend also) and my ma went to visit her place (my ma and her ma ended up bein friends cause we were friends)
my ma loved where she lived and moved up arty:

it was the most perfect thing ever

 

My best friend moved about 4,000 miles away to a different continent - I was fine with it after a week or two. Things change, you just have to accept it, plus now you have a free place to go for a nice little vacation, when need be.

 

:grouphug:

 

I know its not too far, but its much farther than I like. I guess I saw it coming. she has been moving further and further away. She like about 45 min away now, and i see her once or twice a month if im lucky.
D, she's moving to San Marcos, which is less than halfway between SA and Austin.
I guess it will be nice to have someplace to go for a week and my dick has a house up there too. She has her dad and gran and other family here, so she will hafta stop by when she comes for holidays and stuff.

Still, boo.

 

I'm sorry to hear that, Hilder

It happens though. People move away. It'll make it more special when you do see eachother though

 

every visit with her was special. Even when I saw her every day.
but yeah, i hope we dont drift apart.

 

Sorry to hear that Hilder but lucky 3 hours isn't that far so it wont cost must to visit her, besides it already sounds like you are giving up you have a phone and a internet connection you can always keep in touch. Hopefully you will, I have had good friendships fade away because I didn't try hard enough to keep in contact, so i know how it is.

 

Im not giving up, but I know what happens.. I hope not, with all my heart. I truly do love her.

 

My best friend lives about 2 miles away and I haven't seen him in years.

 

I've had that happen to me, I think. It sucks, I'm sorry.

 

3 hours isnt far?

My best friend in high school still lives just around the corner from my folks, I havent as much as spoken to her in like 10 years (although her hubby is a douche)

 

haha!

 

damn B what up with that? if you dont mind!


sorry to hijack thread.