I’m male and in a relationship with three women who all know about the others. Help and advice required please
Did you intend for these women to find out about each other? If not, you better be ready for this, 'cuz you gotta' go to sleep sometime, dude and women can, when provoked, wreak some of the most terrifyingly bizarre revenge you've ever seen. It only takes one of them to totally derail your world. If, on the other hand, they are totally cool with it, no problem, and no advice needed. If you're asking here, and especially AFTER they found out, you're outa' luck and at their mercy. $h!t happens.
My former wife's co-worker found out her hubby was cheating on her and located the gal. Told her that, "You can either meet me in person to discuss this, or I'll hunt you down and discuss it with you, and I won't be nice". They met in a public place. Entertaining conversation ensued. Went something like this: A) Did he ever do THIS to you? B) I taught him that! A) Oh my gawd! I love that! What about THIS...? B) Oh, yeah, I taught him that... A) Bloody hell! I absolutely love it when he does that to me! This conversation went on all evening with these two gals. Of course, when hubby came home there were now two women sitting side by side on the couch with their arms crossed and giving him the narrow stare. He looked, said "Oh, HELL NO..." and turned right around to leave with both gals right on his backside. I heard his wife sat across the room from him all night with a butcher knife in her hand, and every time he dozed off and snapped awake she'd be halfway across the room towards him. Dumb@$$. I'd have left. On the other hand, I didn't have any interest in running around on my wife, either, so there's that.
So they knew about the others from the start. And were cool with it. Sounds like we should be asking you for advice on how you got that to happen. You say that help and advice are needed. If we knew what was going wrong, we could give better advice.
Don't know. Heard it from the wife. Never heard anything about him again. Or her, for that matter. It was not long after that my wife left her job and things really started to go south in our own relationship. Things are all good now, but I've also been single for 13 years, haven't bothered dating again, and have very little interest in doing so, either. Not saying I'm not interested. Just haven't met anyone inspiring enough to make it worth the effort.
I fail to understand why he needs help and advice. It sounds like a situation a lot of guys would love.
