Mouth Contact After Going Down On A Girl

This is mostly for women I guess,

My girlfriend finally confessed to me that she finds kissing absolutely disgusting after I finish going down on her. I don't really have a problem with that,( although when the roles are reversed I love it) however at the same time she said that.....

... if I happen to be fucking her and pull out and shove my dick in her mouth and then go back in she is completlly ok with that. In fact she said, at the right time (and by the right time, she specifically meant not before she is about to come and other things along those line) she would find it hot.


I don't think I really get it, past the the point of one being more "sensual":while the latter being more "dominant" but it still boggles my mind.

 

From the male perspective, what tastes I find desirable changes between "before orgasm" and "after orgasm". Might this be a factor?

 

just be glad your ol lady draws the line somewhere because somr don't...stay away from those ones

 

here's the deal..

when your down there licking pussy lips, juices get all over your face. When you go to kiss them, those juices get all on the outside of the females face, above/below lips, chin, cheeks..

some females have skin reactions to these juices. breaking out, burning, ect.

maybe keep a damp cloth nearby, after youre done wipe your face off..

when your cock comes out of the pussy wet and goes into the mouth, it does not touch the face..

 

I laughed. It's just funny. "Keep a damp cloth.." lol

 

Like hell it doesn't.

 

The obvious answer being, never go down on her again ....... problem solved!

 

if you get slapped in the face with it..

 

C'mon now, my cock isn't quite big enough to slap myself in the face. I suppose my point really was that when my GF and I have sex, there's really no rules or lines that can't be crossed, and nothing that happens is so dirty or gross that the shower can't fix it.

 

Have had women both ways...much rather have one that doesn't mind - or actually likes to kiss afterwards.
Having to stop to wipe your mouth off, rinse your mouth out with water etc....breaks the moment.. and that sucks for any reason.
The best sex is always sex that is uninterrupted and without rigid rules.

 

My gf has never had a problem with it; and don't some girls lick their fingers when they play with themselves?

 

Damn, some good fucking answers here.

Orison wins this one - by her own admission actually. Here is the thing, I have a beard - which I am basically :"required" to keep - apparently it happens to be such a huge turn on for her, that if my job required me to be clean shaven it "could" potentially be a dealbreaker. The beard soaks in a lot of the juices apparetly, Still it took me by surprise she considers it a turn on if I pull out and just shove it in her mouth without asking. She did atm ONCE, but it was after she came, and I don't think she reallly thought about it before she got down to it. We went out for a cigarette right after she got done flinching, and she blew me on the front porch. I didn't say anything before or after and will take this one to my grave and I guess I will never know if she knew beforehand or not, but I thought it was super hot she went for it (I gave her multiple rimjobs in the past and they were a huge turn on for both of us), and I had no second thoughts - fuck it, who am I kidding I couldn't wait to shove my tongue down her throat immediately after I came in her mouth.

Now, my beard is one one of the two "mandatory" ones - the other being a specific pair of jeans that I own - which to her defense happen to also actually be nice enough to easily pass and go with a dress-like attire i.e a suit jacket with dress shoes - those fuckers are cut so tight that I look like I have a hard on at all times, or a pornstar sized dick (and TRUST ME I do not) . A couple of years ago (we've been together for a while now) somebody posted a casual picture on facebook of a group of us, by the time I checked it it had like 40 comments with the majority being about me having a boner.

Now, My girlfriend - the idiot she can be at times, even though i still love her - eventually thought it would be somehow funny to reply with another picture with me in those pants with an actual hardon. Now, I have no illusions about my dick, and while it clearly does fluctuate,my real i.e no-digging-the-ruler-into-my -pelvis etc. max size is 6 3/4" (and I am 6 5" ) with 6.25-6.5 average, but with honestly pretty shitty girth (I would gladly trade 1" in length for even half an inch in girth. After more than 30 years on this planet, I have realized that going past 6" might be visually appealing but is pretty much completely useless physically. Doggy style might still feel amazing for me, but by now I got the message loud and clear that my gf (and I am guessing not just her as far as my partners but we've been together long enough that I finally - and boy that took a long time - for her to call me out on anything that A) first of all might be causing her pain or discomfort or B) she doesn't like ( with a stipulation that those are not out of the question completely, but that if I don't push it they will certainly not only be saved but will come into play on special occasions) HATES the length aspect in that position (in all honesty, hearing "ugh too deep" only makes you feel like a stud maybe the first 2-3 times, after that you either learn not to do it because it is clearly fucking painful or you're just a fucking dick and you shouldn't be surprised - fuck it I will go as far as to say that you deserve it - if you end up with bite marks after a blowjob ).

Well in those pants - first of all boxers are out of the question, haynes or tighty w's only - dick in a pant leg with the crotch seam cutting your testes in half while driving WILL make a grown man cry. (I just go commando with those pants these days - and others too, and seriously freedom to place or adjust your dick placement whether in puiblic or not should seriously be in the Bill of Rights ). Now, before I eventually made that silly gf of mine take it down I got I think 20 likes from girls, 3 from guys, but the best were the 30-40 comments from friends and common aquaintances and even some randoms (thank God no students of mine, as I was a lecturer for junior level class and and a TA for a lab with over 100 students during that semester), that went like "omg, that looks so painful", "Yo, I think you need surgery bro", and my two favorites 1) "I would say this shit is fake but your dick has to be somewhere....right?" and one from a girl from college that has actually not only seen my dick in the flesh but actually sucked it more than once so she knows the size and girth fairly well,and this one still comes up every halloween even because thats when the picture was taken several years ago " Well, since your dick looks like its already making a U turn, you could have just gone as Underdog". I had only one reply of my own which made my gf finally give in and take it down - and this is verbatim as I its still private have "Yes, the pants are really tight. Yes it is painful. Yes, you are seeing what you're seeing. No, i didn't kidnap Craven (his snake).Josh. No, I did not stuff my crotch. No my penis is not broken. No, these pants are not comfortable. Sorry to disappoint everyone, but my penis is not remotely that impressive. It is niether as long as you seem to imagine, and CERTAINLY not girthy. I've apparently been blessed with maybe a longer, yet really narrow dick that can bend like a horseshoe. The only benefit is that it still allows for everyone to enjoy the movie (this part my gf didn't particularly like, and if you don't get it think of head/mouth placement when getting head).

And the reason I mentioned those fucking pants, I just spent the last two nights out in them, at one of them doing kareoke, and my gf still thinks its funny to grab my dick through those pants to make it hard, even though i keep telling her time after time it hurts like a bitch, but on the other hand I always get to take my dick out on the way home, and she is pretty particular about not leaving a mess or any white stains in the car.

 

Orison is the chickadee of chickadees.

 

:gorgeous: ...

 

No Surprises Here Folks........I Always Thought "Orison" Was A Tart........ :gorgeous: ........



Cheers Glen.

 

My girlfriend loves passionate kissing.

We'll fuck for a long time, then she'll suck my dick, then fuck some more, and sometimes I'll cum in her mouth.

When she was in college, she wasn't on the pill because it made her gain weight. When she fucked her boyfriends during vulnerable time of months, when they were ready to cum, she'd let them finish in her mouth, To this day, often, before we fuck, she'll tell me that she wants me to cum in her mouth.

 

I find kissing after oral sex (on me) wonderful,'cos I taste FANTASTIC!

It is a very, very intimate act, whether with another woman or with a man.

Same thing goes for me, I find kissing a penis that's just been withdrawn from me - whether it's ejaculated or not, incredibly intimate.

 

Yes, i agree, the intimacy level is high when offered a chance to taste yourself (esp from a lover's body part) during sex. It took some coaxing but i managed to get my lover to understand that licking me immediately after he comes is a HUGE turn on as well. After he started, he saw the appeal and jerked off (that term seems so...but i don't have another) while i finished. I think he was so into it, it didn't even occur to him to move into a 69. I'm a bit squeamish on bi behavior during mmf's, but i have to say that the thought of one guy fucking me from behind while another licks and catches all the drops from both of us is pretty hot.

 

Yes I love to kiss and be kissed after oral, having both given and received. It's really HOT and I love the taste of myself in her mouth.

 

Sharing juices is one of the hottest parts about sex. I confess that I'm totally into tasting my own juices. A huge part of our foreplay involves my husband fingering me until I'm wet and then rubbing his fingers behind my ears and on my lips and in my mouth. That is the number one sexy move as far as I'm concerned. Pussy to mouth sex is equally as hot. OMG, I can't even imagine not wanting to do that.