So when you knew you were gonna have your first kid, what exactly was going thru your head? The first thoughts when you knew you were knocked up.
Your ma is cute! Damn when I was in labor I suddenly wanted to turn back time and forget all about the stinkin baby.
Was in the middle of cooking at the same time and this thought rolled across my mind. How do women feel and think when they hear the news, is it fear of having a baby, or how the baby will be, the pain, the issues, the fun, the joy you know , did not mean to offend. Everyone reacts differently to the news. Some women are happy, others scared, others sick ect.
I was terrified. Not of the pain, as its just momentary... I was more worried that I would totally and completley fuck up the life of this poor, poor child who had the bad luck of getting me as a mother. Still worry about that, but am getting better.... 2 months to go before we see how badly I can fuck up his life.
Well, it isn't something you can just take lightly...you are responsible for someone helpless...you may screw up, you worry about their safety... It can be a bit overwhelming, but I got through it. After the baby comes...that's when you think "OMG, what have I DONE?!"
I think women , well most have a full on total love for thier children, would do anything above and beyond to offer there child a wonderful life. If you were not afraid of messing up, to me that would make ya a weak parent. Being afraid of messing up to me means your looking out already.