Moral Situation: to engade or to withdraw

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Sininabin, Jan 24, 2006.

  1. Sininabin

    Sininabin Member

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    I guess it has been nagging at me what someone else would thinks then just my own thoughts about this. I've been playing around with a girl who lives close to me and we have been hanging out since she moved to my street 2 years. Well eventully it lead to fooling around with her, and at frist it seemed not to heavy just two kids experimenting. But i starting to think that she is getting more attached to me. I think she hinting to be my girlfreind but the thing is i don't really like her, it just doesn't click i mean we talk a lot and get along but i don't have the emotional joyride or feel any real mental closeness. My promblem is multi-faced, one is i know she has never really liked or been with a guy before me she slightly younger and inexperianced ( also a little less mature) but i've been close to love and i have really liked a few girls. I remeber how it felt to be rejected but i guess playing along would make it all the worse. Also i want her virginity to say it striaght forwardly and as we hang out more i know i'm really close. I'm a virgin myself. It might sound totally shallow and horny and it is but i just want to hear replies because morally i've done a lot of bad things and this would just be another cut on my cane, so part of me is like it just one more thing it doen't matter at this point, and a part me is she sweet girl and i don't want to mess up her future relationships

    thx for the time (sry for posting unedited fixed)
     
  2. Talk Show Host

    Talk Show Host Senior Member

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    Was that supposed to be English?
     
  3. Sininabin

    Sininabin Member

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    it should be readable now sry for posting unedited words
     
  4. Keanua Otter

    Keanua Otter Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    you sound like a young rouge in the making, but ask yourself if all that sexy energy might lead to a baby..that would be alot of responsibility.
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    before answering this troll, you should read about his murder fantasies...
     
  6. Sininabin

    Sininabin Member

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    i heard that things that were important when you're young aren't that importantas you get old and that seem logically

    this i guess is one of those things
     
  7. ManorXic

    ManorXic Banned

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    Just fuck her.


    She's gotta learn about you assholes somehow.
     
  8. freakylady

    freakylady Member

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    .................
     
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  10. yazzer

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    Don't take her virginity unless you are in love with her. She'll be heart-broken otherwise.


     
  11. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    Murder fantasies?...lol
     
  12. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    Oh wait, i see what you mean...i cant say ive ever imagined taking anyones life, myself:-S Not sure how natural it is.
     
  13. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel.

    But if you don't like her, why are you even messing around with her. Talk about immature :rolleyes: . Leave the girl alone or you will ruin her view on men and relationships.
     
  14. Sininabin

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    i'm sry this post if mostly a lie but i wanted un-bias thoughts about this situation with my cousin and I am actully starting to be quite fond of her as before it was more about sex
     
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  16. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    Happy Birthday!
     
  17. Bumble

    Bumble Senior Member

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    unfortunaly a lot of guys think with the wrong head. [​IMG] This is what gets them in trouble. They think us women don't know this, but we do.

    To the poster: Don't fuck her. How about the both of you save your virginity for someone you love?
     
  18. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    Take advice from an expert ex-philanderer, DON'T TAKE HER VIRGINITY away from her unless she knows that it's just going to be a fucking and that's it.

    My past is riddled with such assholish behavior. I deeply regret that.

    I still have a major problem with wanting pussy ALL THE TIME, but I've grown to appreciate and respect women as people, not property.

    So, my advice is simple, but sincere.
     

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