mockery to the point of depressing

I go into school i usually dont make it to lunch without people making fun of me. i stand up for myself but its almost inconsequential. constantly i hear retard, doofy, and all this other bullshit i cant stand it.

 

My heart aches for you. That's awful that you have to endure that kind of thing everyday. If I ever found out that one of my children were doing that to another person, man, they'd be in trouble. I don't stand for that kind of thing at all.

I'm really sorry you have to go through that.

 

that really sucks....... what do you do to defend yourself?

 

ive foughten quite a few kids but i usally get the worst i dont care i jus want to shut them up

 

yeah fighting isnt the answer I guess..... Im sorry this is happening.

 

Kids can be so cruel sometimes. I just don't understand it. I never had the desire to be that way with people.

 

ugnore em..theyre the 1's who will be left in theyre pathetic lives while u move on to better things

or at least thats the way it worked for me
i had the same prob..and every 1 of the losers who pulled that shit are still pathetic losers lkivin in the same pathetic town and pulling the same pathetic immature bullshit..
but u have the opporrtunity to rise above them..be better then them..and just let theyre insults not affect you, after all, every put down is just an attempt to push you lower then them because they know your above them

imean they feelif they put u down enough it makes them seem better then you..

kids are very insecure and use insults as ameans to bolster theyre fragile egos
thats allit is..so ignore it

 

I was a bit of a bully when I was young.

But the bullys get bullied too... believe me!

 

dont be bothered by bullies.. you're already better than them because you're trying to stick up for yourself and not stopping to their level.

mostly, just ignore them.. they'll stop if you don't listen to them..

 

Do they know you? I mean the real you? You can't let bullshit bother you. And that's what it is. They can call you any name they want but you know who you are. I put up with the same shit in Junior High and High School. I got through it by smiling, replying "whatever" and walking away. Yeah I took a beat down or two but everyone does. Violence isn't the answer, don't lower yourself.

Peace.

 

Yeah i've had a terrible feeling that people would make fun of me behind my back, or a fear that they would to my face all of my life. But after reading the positive attitudes toward the subject on this thread i think it might have changed my life! Seriously. I think i'm just going to look at it from that stand point from now on.

A few years ago i started taking adderall because of my horrible attention span, and it worked beyond my greatest expectations. But it made me really geeky, and all of the friends that i use to hang around that were bullies to others that were geeks were starting to see that i was turning. And i knew it. But lately i haven't hung out with them because fuck them. I haven't been like an extreme geek or anything, just way more then i use to be. I quit taking adderall last year for other reasons and have still been geekish ever since. Lately i've came to the conclusion that that is how i am now, and if i let it bother me it's just going to put more stress on me. I need to throw my self consciousness, and care of what people think of my true personality out the window, and i think i'll be just fine.

 

I know how it feels I used to go to a school where thats all they would do was talk shit about me.. It was like the people had no lives of their own and always were in mine. It kills the pain they make you feel...and for no reason. People can be strange and hurtful! Its hard to say dont let it bother you cause it does, its not something easy to over look.

I was talking to my friend the other day and we got to talking about my old school and i basically asked why everyone hated me. She said its easier to hate someone than to get to know them...And honestly I think thats true it makes lots of sense. But as hard as it is try to ignore it, cause they arent worth your time or your effort their pathetic.

When i moved, love my new school, that I forgot all about those people. It dint matter anymore what they thought or what they said. Try to cheer up and ignore those stupid comments cause what they say amounts to nothing.

 

Why don't you do something about it?

Either...making a formal complaint with the head of school and demanding it be followed up (if you can be bothered with all the politics), or change schools. You DONT have to and SHOULDNT put up with it.

 

thats terrible. you know youre better than those people, right? it may be hard to take theyre shit now but beleive me, in the long run you will be soo glad to be you and not them.

 

Bullying messed me up pretty badly for about a year.

 

I used to get bullied. I got in fights in middle school, and sort of a showdown in high school, and not much came of it. Here's my advice: If you can make their taunts or whatever into a joke, especially at their cost, they won't get as much fun out of being dicks. You'll have to evaluate whether this will be effective in your situation, but for example, if someone says you're a retard, you can reply with "maybe, but I had sex with your mom last night, and she said it was spectacular." Something like that. You can tone it down if that'll cause a fight, 'cause that's not cool.

 

One major thing to remember is that high school dosn't mean shit. After you graduate (or whatever) you will NEVER see those people again. I was picked on all through school and after I graduated all the bullshit and drama from school dissapeared and ceased to matter. Besides, the people that are making fun of you now will be mowing your lawn in ten years for six bucks an hour. That's what our number one asshole quarterback is doing for me now. Ha Ha Haaaaa!!!

 

well i tried to fight a kid two days ago and the teacher calmed me down and the kid has nothing to say now.

 

Don't even worry about those assholes. I used to have a guy bothering me all the time, throwing shit at me, name calling, all that, but I couldn't really do anything because he's actually a professional kickboxer, otherwise I would have beat his face. So one day I just asked him infront of a whole bunch of people, "man wtf's your problem? Grow up, stop being such an idiot because no one fuckin likes you". It tought me that sometimes words really CAN be stronger than action. All you really need to do, is just make them realize how immature and lame they are, and maybe they'll just stop. Hope it works for you man.

 

Word to that.