I was off work yesterday at home cleaning etc. I had a visit from two police officers mid afternoon who came into my house and discussed an incident from a couple of weeks ago, they were both young and attractive. Last night my hubby came in from work, we had tea and discussed our day etc, I told him I had a visit from two young policemen, but had a cheeky grin on my face, told him what was said etc, we then went off to bed and started to kiss and cuddle and ended up making love, mid way my hubby mentioned the police officers, and I started to laugh, but then he whispered about them bringing me upstairs and taking turns fucking me, then said he was getting really turned on of the thought of me with these two guys, I asked would he let me do it for real, after a long thought he said no, he was just fantasising, but he has brought it up since jokingly but I feel he now wants a mmf 3some. I'm now thinking he wants to share me with other men as a few other comments he has said. I know he stated he was fantasising but why me with 2 other guys?
That's a hard thing to explain to someone who hasn't felt it. But I would start by saying that its a normal and common thing for a husband to fantasize about, don't worry. The emotion in question here is called compersion, and is often called the opposite of jealousy. When you see your husband enjoying something, and it makes YOU happy, you are experiencing compersion. This is easy to deal with when he's enjoying the dinner you made, or the present you bought for him, but harder to handle when he's enjoying the sexual attentions of someone else. Its not something everyone needs to try in reality, but it can be a fun thing to fantasize about. I can close my eyes and imagine my girl smiling, writhing, and screaming in pleasure while two hunky cops take turns pounding her senseless, (wait, I'm doing it now....) and get extremely turned on (...yep, there it is. ). And why not? Its hot! And its also just a fantasy. Imagined characters are not really competition. But the IDEA of my girl servicing a couple of studs like a pro causes me to feel pride, excitement, and compersion, much more than jealousy. It may also speak to the stability and security of your relationship. I don't think insecure people fantasize about sharing their spouses. Maybe the fact that he's fantasizing about this is an indication that he trusts you so implicitly, he's not really afraid of another man stealing you away. But he wants to keep it a fantasy, just to make sure. I always feel like I'm overstating the obvious when I get on a rant like this, but if you want my advice, play along with the fantasy. Write him a story about how your two cop friends came back today and spent the afternoon 'pumping' you for information... Buy him a cop costume, and let him role play... Probably nothing more will come of it, and you may find that you really enjoy it too. :2thumbsup:
Never done two guys at the same time. My boyfriend is not even slightly interested in it. We do two girls though on rare occasions. I was hesitant at first but it's actually fun as long as it's only a one time thing and you don't know the girl very well. I think I'd probably have issues if it were with a mutual friend who we saw often. But there is something sexy about seeing someone you love enjoy someone else in a situation where you don't worry that they'll keep seeing the person.
Problems arise when folks stop talking. Be honest, dont do a thing unless your both on board with it. Go have fun, we're all doing life sentences!!
We have had discussions on this over the last week or so as it has been on my mind. My guy has never pressured me into doing something I don't want to do but this has turned out to be a massive turn on for us both. Last night we spoke about it again whilst making love, and it slipped out from me "let's try it for real" we were both a bit shocked so much so it dampened the mood, we started talking about it and both agreed to give it a go the only problem now is with who! We don't know if we want someone we know or a stranger, the other option we have thought of is a male escort. We did finish the evening off pretending to have a 3some with me sucking my dildo
Excellent. :2thumbsup: Threesomes can be a lot of fun, once you find the right person. Like EZ says, you have to keep talking and stay honest. Make sure it stays something that you're doing together and that you're both having fun with. Remember, its ok to be nervous about it, that's how you know its an adventure. Good luck, and keep us updated.
:afro: and it's damn good times!I talked about it with my last b/f but he had troubles with him even it it lol.(both MMF or MFF) just do it~
Yeah, I'd be up for it, but I don't want to share a gf....it'd have to be a girl I didn't know that well......
The day has come, we are meeting someone tonight for some drinks, then see what happens, I've left it down to my hubby to arrange and he met the guy a couple of days ago, a surprise! But he has said I will like him, I'm a little nervous but should be ok once I've had a few drinks, I'll update next week and let you know what happens
Done the deed! And yes what a surprise it was, after a few drinks at a pub the guy turned up as he promised but he also had company, yes yet another guy, thrown in at the deep end or what! Was nervous enough about 2 guys but 3! Didn't know if I could go through with it at first but after a few more drinks, the laughing and attention I got from them, off we went back home and yes had 3 guys, role play, the lot, and would like to experience the whole thing again. If you want more detail you'll have to ask x
of course we want more details. tell us what happened and how did handle them did u enjoy/ hurt / swallow ?
As stated yes I enjoyed the whole thing. We had a few drinks to get to know each other, they made me laugh, and flirted with me, went back to our place, I was wearing a short-ish dress, hold ups, and thong, I sat on the settee, my hubby stated for each guy to sit either side and start things off, I'm a bit of a giggler and first thought it was funny, but then the guys started kissing my neck whilst feeling my legs and boobs, I started to get really turned on, one guy then put his hand up my skirt and the other started to kiss me, I just opened my legs, one guy then went down on me whilst the other undressed, he had a nice toned body and a good size cock, started to suck him, then I got turned over were the other guy started to penetrate me from behind, we did other positions, on top, missionary. I could see my hubby getting turned on, he undressed and joined in, at one point I had 2 in my pussy and 1 in my mouth, yes a little painful but an enjoyable pain if you know what I mean. I don't swallow myself as I have never been a big fan of cim so I asked the guys just to cum over me which they did, taking turns missionary and cumming all over my stomach and boobs, the whole sex thing went on for about an hour and was a little sore afterwards and the day after, as the guys were all quite well endowed, but I did enjoy the experience of all the attention, the flirting, the feeling, and seeing my hubby get off on it, we will do this again but not too often, I don't want to become a full on swinger, just a little fun now and again. By the way it was all protected sex apart from my hubby.
Good on you! It is great that you and your partner are secure enough with each other to do this kind of thing together. It is not the same as being an open swinger, because it is an experiance you shared together. My girl and i are looking forward to doing this, but with another woman, because she is Bi and would love to try it out! I would also love to share her with another man, but she has no interest in that herself.
ohhhh god. someday. 2 or 3 sounds like the perfect number for me. one for each hole and if there is 3, one for my mouth too. my idea of heaven i think. i wouldn't even mind with another girl as well. i would gladly munch some rug given the chance
:sunny:Lol! Don't even think for 1 minute that she has no interest in that. I have NEVER met a woman in my many years on this most beautiful blue orb that isn't interested in having 2 men with her. Not you probably because that's part of the BIG LIE. If she said she wanted that or even did it and you found out, what might you think of her? That's a bunch of bullshit, but it's very real. Men are generally as bad. Not as often as is the case with the majority of women, but men feel challenged if their woman, their baby .... wants to suck on another man's ... well you get the picture. I was lucky. There was no sex education in my schools when I was there and nether of my parents ever said ANY THING AT ALL about sex or how relationships were supposed to be. Lucky me as it turned out. I have no jealous bone. I love feeding a healthy diet of tube stake in to MY BABY! That is the normal reaction for the homosapien concerning things like this. Christianity and like minded philosophies are what screws up both male and female animals. By nature we are attracted to others beside our mates. And THATS OKAY! It's both good and healthy! There are fewer better feelings than giving your mate to another male that she is attracted too! The trick is getting them to feel enough trust in you to admit those things so that the both of you can go to that place that few modern humans get to go to..... completed sexual freedom. Doesn't mean you don't respect and love your mate, nor her you. Fear of loosing them, that they might just like it too much is what causes that fear to escalate. Talk about, let that old puritan thinking crap (because that's what it is - crap!) go! Like I said, I was just lucky because all 3 of my sisters are frigid bitches that I doubt has EVER experience an orgasm. Thanks mom and dad! (he said sarcastically for the irreparable damage they did to my sisters!) and thanx mom and dad for not sharing one single stupid hang up about sex that you both have. So lucky I missed that bullet! Whew! Thank you Jesus! Good luck! Need any help with that, either of you - or any one for that matter, I'm your go to man for matters such as these! Ciao and Peace and A whole lotta love! :love: Oz
Actually not that you know anything about us at all, but no she is not just saying it for me! We are both 100% open with each other about our sexual feelings. Trust is also not an issue with us either. Which is probably why our sex life together is off the charts crazy good! After we had built a strong bond and relaitionship with each other for a while she confided in me that she has always had bi feelings and is also attracted to woman! It was not an easy thing for her to tell me, but she wanted me to know the person she is. From that day on evrything between us is an open book! Neither one of us has any interest in being swingers and having an open relationship so the talk of a ffm threeway with another came up and is something we both feel fine with experiancing together. For her this gives her a chance to be with another woman and still retain what we have together! For me it is a huge turn on to have the chance to experiance this with her! I am the one who wants to share her with another man and have made it clear that I am not worried about or jealous about the thought of her doing it! I am totally confindent with how she feels about and wants me! I am not afaid by doing it that I won't be enough for her anymore! I know I please her and give her what she needs from a man. I am not insecure about that at all! For her the threeway with a girl is a way to experiance something she can't get form me, but can share with me. This is what she wants to do. The threeway with a guy just is not a turn on to her right now! She has said maybe her feelings about it will change once we go through it with another woman, but untill then it wont happen. I find it hard to understand how anyone would not enjoy being the center of attention of two people at the time and told her that, but it is how she feels and I will not push her to do anything she is not comfy to do. The doors are open for the future and we will see where it goes.
Thanks! I am sure all of our fantasy's will come true together in time. Untill then I will just enjoy the awesome sex life we already share.
