Missed opportunities

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by topper, May 14, 2019.

  1. topper

    topper Member

    Messages:
    2,616
    Likes Received:
    4,533
    Have you ever realized that you missed opportunities in the past, because you never picked up on the hints from another friend? Just couldn't read the writing on the wall? When did you become enlightened and realized your missed opportunity?
    Did you ever go back and try not to miss it a second time?
     
  2. Shadow22

    Shadow22 Members

    Messages:
    12
    Likes Received:
    19
    I've had several missed opportunities because I had something else on my mind at the time and totally missed the hint or subtle presentation. Bummer.
     
  3. Bicaptain My Captain

    Bicaptain My Captain Members

    Messages:
    1,942
    Likes Received:
    2,286
    Just once. I was at a "men for cum party" where everyone got naked and did what was mutually agreeable. The first man I sucked had a nice cock so I got on my knees and was giving him a nice, slow bowjob which we were both enjoying. After about 20 minutes, knees on thin carpet over concrete, my knees were killing me so I begged off.

    I was involved with others for most of the party but came back to him, hoping to pick up where I left off. He said that another man had gotten him off quickly but he was still in the mood to be sucked. The party was breaking up do we got dressed and left. Later I realized I should have gotten his number.
     
  4. Daretobare

    Daretobare Member

    Messages:
    1,466
    Likes Received:
    1,994
    We had a couple visiting us for two weeks. He and I had preveous to the visit small talked about some experimenting a couple things. Neither of us has really did much of anything in our adult life with same sex but both curious. We were visiting our local nude resort and he and I were showering in a dual and things began to come together. Erections came upon us and a quick pic of the two of us with them. I wasn't satisfied with this being so open and wanted to followup more at a more convenient time and place. As fate would have it. That never happened, they've gone home and chances are won't ever get that chance again.
     
    Bicaptain My Captain likes this.
  5. LowHangers

    LowHangers Members

    Messages:
    3,867
    Likes Received:
    10,266
    Yeah, several times guys I was sucking off wanted to fuck me in the ass but I always refrained from doing so. 20+ years since those days I'm enjoying anal sex and wished I'd experienced it back then rather than waiting so long. Missed opportunities YES, but I'm making up for them now as I can't get enough anal from our boyfriend.
     
  6. Married John

    Married John Members

    Messages:
    61
    Likes Received:
    70
    Lots of missed opportunities both with couples and women. I put it down to lacking confidence.
     
  7. BiArdorGuy

    BiArdorGuy Members

    Messages:
    20
    Likes Received:
    16
    Yes, I feel like I’m missing an opportunity. A work colleague seems a tad ‘flirtatious’ with me. He also gets into my physical space a little more than most people would but it gives me a little ‘buzz’ when he does. I also know from his likes on FB posts that he’s LGBT friendly. He’s married like me, and funny. I don’t know how to initiate a ‘date’ or even if I should because of our work relationship. I get warm when I fantasize about him though, and I swear he would be game and likes me. HELP!
     
  8. LowHangers

    LowHangers Members

    Messages:
    3,867
    Likes Received:
    10,266
    That's a tough one as a friendship and a trusted colleague could be lost if you are wrong. Maybe ask him when acting flirtatious "Are you suggesting something?"..."Is something on your mind?" I wish I could provide you with something that provides the result you want but it is a sensitive subject for a lot of people.
     
  9. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

    Messages:
    2,596
    Likes Received:
    2,120
    yeah....should have been more versatile in my youth....meaning - wish I had received more anal sex.

    Simon :)

    ps. trying to make up for lost time! hehe
     
    dd788snipe likes this.

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice