In my 22 years, I've observed many things. One thing in particular has been very predictable...and that has been men. Men are mildly entertaining for a variety of reasons. I find that they often pretend to be someone they're not...men act like they are caring and compassionate when they first meet you. It's how they reel you in. When you first have sexual relations with a man, they seem very attentive to your needs and often ask if you're comfortable with what they are doing or they go slow to read your reactions. Then, after a few months, that goes out the window...they tend to EXPECT you to please THEM. Men also love to pretend, at first, to be interested in the same things you are. Then suddenly, you find yourself doing those things alone when you used to do those things together. Men, when they first meet you, want to hang out as frequently as possible...then, they start getting "busy" and you see them significantly less often. Suddenly, they need to have guy's night out. It never fails. I have come to expect such things... Men...you are too predictable.
uhh, I'm going to take it easy on you, but your post is just sitting there waiting to be torn to bits....you can't make generalizations like this and be accurate ANd women? Are they perfect? You seem preoccupied with men and always being with one, if they are so flawed then whats the deal?
i have to disagree with you on most of this, but that's probably because we have had different experiences with different guys...anyway, you sound upset..hope ya feel better.
Feel free to rip on what you want... However, that's been my experience with nearly every man I've come in contact with. Although a lot of men put on a facade that they aren't like that at all...to the point where they actually believe it. Women are not perfect...but I know I haven't pretended to be something I'm not to get a guy...However, I'm sure most of these qualities can be applied to both sexes
Annie, I think you just have'nt met the right guy. I'm sure there is one who is truly deserving of you out there. Give it some time...
i agree i think women are compltley themselves and guys pretend to be what they think you want untill they have you and dont have to work at it anymore. but then a lot of women including myself are head cases so i think both genders have issues...
I've never pretended to be something I'm not to get a girl. What I do feel is that men are human just like women. In every relationship I've ever had - there has been the honeymoon stage where the bliss of your emotions lead you to believe that the one you adore can do no wrong. Then people (not just men, but women too) become complacent and somewhat take each other for granted - that doesn't mean that they 'faked' their feelings to begin with though. Relationships are very hard. As hard as you think they are as a woman - a man feels the very same thing - we just don't express it the same way as well, we're wired a bit differently.
No bitching thread here...just simply an observation I made recently. But Colenzo, you send such negative vibes, it's guys like you that give the regular guys a bad name. Girls can't even SAY anything negative without it being called "bitching". Have a pleasant evening Colenzo and quit being a dick. THANKS!
Man, does that ring true for me right now. No matter what I do, I am constantly unappreciated and if feels awful.
Again...OBSERVATIONS. I wasn't CRYING about it. Colenzo..if you seriously have no life and you can REMEMBER my posts...that's pretty sad. RT is for Random Thoughts...those are my random thoughts...if you don't like my posts...don't read 'em, ya dig?
and I would like to add....the less I am appreciated, the less I try for a woman. If I am consistently told how I don't meet someones needs and how shitty of a boyfriend I am - the less I am willing to try. When I am am unappreciated, when I am constantly told how awful I am, the more I'm going to shut down.
capitolism creates fakes ....girls can pretend a lot ....they pretend they have time , that they care ...sometimes they even believe it themselves ..../....most males i see in this society arnt human neva mind men .....first of all boys want to be pleased ....men who have lived risked and struggled understand that their anything can only come through the pleasure of their partner ....they understand the biological fete acomplis that makes them superflouse and their sufferings and demise expendable cion in the protection of the innocent .....and that we are here to here to pass on the spirit of survival and wonder at same , to those behind us on the road twards outties
if ya want someone to be down wit you ......to have your back .... you must be willing to reciprocate and then some ......to take a hit , to die for crew ......why thats magic and youll only have a a handfull of friends or lovers in decades that will hit there .....
ya you sure as hell have made me feel pretty damn special. men don't understand girls like to be treated nicely they like to be romanced and made to feel cared about. so i think in your case it may be a matter of what you dont do i think this girl feels as if she put all the big rocks into the jar and shes waiting for yours as well as some fucking sand. live by your own rules and all your promises are great but i think this girl may feel like she's put in a lot of effort in the past and when its your turn you cant produce.
