Men, how often do you believe women approach you out of friendliness without any favor intent

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  1. curiousbear

    curiousbear Senior Member

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    This question is for Men.
    How often do you believe women approach you out of friendliness without any favor in their mind? The favor could be any monetary, job, career benefit.
    This is either online or real life, especially in real life.
     
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  2. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    Never.
     
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  3. It’s unusual for a man to be approached by a woman period. Generally the man is the pursuer and women are cautious or selective. We’re wired that way. When a woman does approach a man we’re suspicious. In my case that’s happened and my suspicions proved correct.

    However, I’ve been blessed. There have been some angels approach and become good friends. I’d say if it can happen a few times in a lifetime for the average guy.
     
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  4. Piobaire

    Piobaire Village Idiot

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    Nobody approaches me.
     
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  5. curiousbear

    curiousbear Senior Member

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    I updated the question to make it clearer, thank you
     
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  6. Vladimir Illich

    Vladimir Illich Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Quite often. Since my mobility is far from perfect, I sometimes get assistance to cross busy roads or help trying to step up steep curbs.
     
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  7. Captain Scarlet

    Captain Scarlet Lifetime Supporter

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    Sometimes I get asked to reach them something from the top shelf of the supermarket shelf if that counts ?

    Its usually a 5ft 2-4 blonde . Never think anything of it tbh

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  8. curiousbear

    curiousbear Senior Member

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    I would consider that as asking favor
     
  9. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    it is not often that anyone approaches me with any intent, regardless of gender. from my perspective, neither is this any cause for concern.
    granted most people, again regardless of gender, approach one another to "sell" them a perspective or belief, though usually not conscious of doing so,
    though their own insecure need for companionship (the science of psychology tells us this is normal behavior for humans and other social species),
    may as often be their motivation.

    sorry to be a buzzkill to reject the notion of any perspective being inherent to any gender, but sorry, i do reject that notion, absolutely.
    (and absolutely reject the lame excuse of biological male gender having to be narcissistic, and thus motivate aggressive inconsiderateness)

    really the question would be exactly the same without any mention of gender in either part of it.
     
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