Lol like that. sometimes I wonder if a person can be too loving, I mean do they see it as a weakness? Or is it a good quality and simply taken for granted? Whatever I'm me and I do. Least I'm not from mars I've heard it's totally freezing there. Lol! :-D
NO NO NO never can you be too loving. Give out the energy of love and it will come back 10 fold. If not by the person whom you are with then someone coming. I don't see it as a weakness. I had a loving beautiful man full of love. I don't think i appreciated it as much as i should have. Now im going out with a cold, unromantic "tin man" It took the love to see the dark.
In my experience cold hearted bitches get respect. Whereas I find giving love and seeing the best in people just leads to being walked all over. I will continue to love though.cos I do. will be ok I know it. anyone else find that being good hearted is tantamount to being walked upon?
im with the tin man cos i too am a walk over. Tin man is an alcoholic and is living off me. Has little appreciation and respect. Im am a means to serve his many addictions. today i ended it, out of respect for myself. I'll continue to be the door mat until he finds some other accommodation just cos it's the right thing to do for a fellow human being. Keep giving and you will receive. Tis quantum physics.
Honestly what I got from the book after reading most of it a while ago and recalling it now is that women are deeply irrational and need to start thinking about things in a more objective fashion. We're not going to talk about your feelings for an hour. It won't get us anywhere, if you want to do it anyway because you'll feel better afterwards I don't care, you're unproductive start thinking differently. Pick up some hobbies that allow you to objectively improve yourself.
What's this even supposed to mean? My gf loves sex so much she actually sat on her hand at the end of an exam because she was horny. Many of my friends girlfriends have a much higher sex drive than they do and I've met many women who are up for casual fucking... We're really not that different as far as liking sex goes in my experience and any guy who thinks differently isn't getting any
How you women ever convinced yourselves that men are pigs and you are the gender of love and romance is one of life's great mysteries. I have only been on this Earth 36 years but what I see going on out there is quite the opposite. I'm in a relationship for now but I've been through some stupid shit with females and I know 3 dudes in my immediate social circle who are being dragged over the coals by you delicate little flowers of love as we speak, for reasons that are selfish if for any reason at all. I can't even hang out with them because its too depressing to watch. Men don't just think with their dicks, these days, most women aren't good for anything other than sex and ya know what? It's not enough and it's not what many of us so called pigs want. I don't know where all these classy, independant women are who just want "to be treated right by a nice guy" but I call em like I see em. Decent woman are tough to find, like bigfoot.
In my experience, that has definitely been the case. What you give isn't always what you get. You won't always be treated the way you treat others. Is there a fine line between being good hearted, and just being too soft? I'm not sure, but I definitely feel that people see my kind nature as weakness, and use it against me. I also see plenty of not very nice people getting far in life, and getting what they want. So... being nice certainly isn't a prerequisite for recieving kindess in return or having a prosperous life. Especially if you're very obviously "different" from other people as well.
Are you a guy that want a decent woman ? or can handle a decent woman / or that can honor a decent woman ? i can say only this from European continent ? we want many girlfriend ? we want our girlfriend to be our slut ,bitch etc . But when time comes for a serious girl for family . we look around us and only see independent woman , with a lot of experience life... lot of experience life . that is the reason why in Europe many country older men marry girls younger by 9 or 12 years . this is normal here . Second my friend always remember . this is a man world . you the american build this capitalist world . you raised this generation . it is your fault . now it is time for responsibility. you build it ,you pay it .
I'm afraid I am not well travelled so I can not speak on women outside of the US. I can handle as well as honor a decent woman to answer your question, I simply do not hand over honor and respect to just any lady at this stage in my life. I've wised up and I know what the deal is and frankly don't care who has a problem with it. I haven't built any capitalist world at all sir. I was born into the default system that was here waiting for me from the moment I took my first breath and I had no say in its design. If I could build a culture it would look more native american than modern american. I'm sorry to hear that this is your view of Americans but I understand.