Just curious how our bodies are feeling as they grow older. How is your body changing? Your penis and your abilities? I know that my body is definitely starting to show his age and my penis is definitely showing his age as well in his appearance. He’s still functioning well though! How about you guys? Please share about yourself as I genuinely want to know!
I'm 73 about 5 years ago no longer got rock hard. Wife's desires slowed down a couple of years ago. She doesn't refuse sex, but I can tell she doesn't enjoy. Due to this I don't use my penis that much, and lack of use seems to make things worse. Kinda like if you don't use it, you lose it. We have always been open, and she has even told me she has a couple of widow friends who would love me helping them out. They don't really appeal to me. The one younger lady late 50s I have thought about, but don't know if I could please her. I still remember being about 8 inches and thick, Wife liked hanging wet wash cloth on me in shower and still sticking out. Now in semi hard it hangs down and limber. I'm happy letting father time take its course. If the right female came along, I would use my oral skills and please her.
Jimandjan, I’m not far behind you in age. (71) That said, Age can be a bitch, if you let it. Sure, my penis doesn’t point up like a flag pole anymore, but it still functions properly. My issue is more of stamina. I can get rigid and erect at will, but I find myself getting exhausted quickly and don’t always cum. In other words, I tire out before I cum. That’s why I always, always make sure my wife gets a good orgasm before.
I still get hard-ons regularly often several times a day, but like many men they are more horizontal when I'm stood up than vertical these days, but my other half doesn't seem to mind and I still masturbate regularly along side full intercourse
It's hell getting old, but better than the alternative. I just remember when she loved sex, but now she just can't get enough lube, but I enjoy cuddling and all else.
Just my opinion but you should try to use your penis as often as possible to help keep him working well for you! I make sure to get mine to a full erection at least a couple of times a day and try to ejaculate at least every couple of days to exercise him and keep him happy
Time has for sure played hell on me. And various health issues. Wife isn't sexual at all anymore so any use now is self satisfaction. And I can thanks little pill to help in those sessions.
It's been five and a half years since my wife and I have actually fucked and I miss it terribly. It's not because of any reluctance on her part, but rather my extreme ED and a number of other health issues. We still pet each other to orgasm on a regular basis, but it's just not the same (as most of you know.) Pharmacological assistance stopped working for me a long time ago. (I neglected to mention that my wife and I are both in our late 60s.)
At 60 my cock still gets rock hard but it might take a little while and some sexy stimulation. When I am at full staff, it is thinner and shorter than it used to be but, still plenty capable if getting the job done. My orgasms are at least as intense as they were when I was younger...maybe more.
Well, I just turned 79. My erect dick is a out a half inch shorter (now 6 1/4") and not quite as firm as when a bit younger. It is fully and frequently functioning. As I have aged gravity has increased the length of my flaccid dick to 5-6". My balls now hang quite bit lower as well. I have nice firm morning wood virtually every morning. My wife is fully functioning as well. We have vaginal and/or oral sex 3-4 times a week. Perhaps our functionality is assisted by our fitness levels. We exercise vigorously daily and carry very little excess fat...except for my petite wife's nice c ups. We also seldom wear clothes...that helps!
I'm 66. Testicular atrophy; they're smaller and much softer than they used to be, and don't produce enough testosterone; I inject T once a week (no small feat with lots of tremor in my hands). Even with testosterone supplements, erections are unreliable (NEVER WASTE A HARD-ON!). Unfortunately, sex drive doesn't necessarily correlate to ED.
I am 60 Still starting the engine everyday to keep things going. I am always trying to keep the wife going. I know eventually things might fade further. But I am going to fight it constantly.
60 - can get a hard on at the drop of a hat. However it needs stimulation to stay up. If I stop masturbating or having sex, within a moment it starts to "deflate" - but thank God, it will fire right back up when stimulated again.