After being a regular hetero husband for decades, how did you get into bi play, strapons, etc.? With us, it was always me first. She didn't want to do anything that I wouldn't do myself . When I first wanted to cum in my wifes mouth, she wanted me to do it first and I let her jerk me off and put it in my mouth. She even tested me the first time I came in her mouth and she made me kiss her. Same thing when it came to Anal. She agreed to try it after I tried it first, with a dildo the same size as my dick. She tried it, said she didn't like it herself, but she did like doing it to me. It's been that way since. Have you been challenged by your partner , to try it first, if it's so great?
My first marriage became sexless and I found myself mutually sucking with other married men for satisfaction. My wife and I both swallow. As far as anal, my wife has no interest but she does fuck me and recently talked me into allowing our lover to fuck me which was fantastic...I want more. She thought it was hot too as she was sucking me off with a front row seat watching his cock fucking me and fondling his balls.
